Consequences Of Emotional And Psychological Abuse

Signs Of Emotional And Psychological Abuse:

• Physical Discomfort
• Low Self-esteem
• Loss Of Social Relationships Often Leading To Isolation
• Feeling That You Are No Longer The Person You Used To Be
• Stress
• Anxiety
• Depressed Mood
• Changes In Sleep Patterns
• Feeding Problems
• Addiction To Different Types Of Substances (Including Benzodiazepines And Alcohol)
• Laziness And Carelessness In Physical Appearance
• Irritability
• Apathy
• Feelings Of Helplessness And Worthlessness
• Indecision
• Unsafety 

 

• Emotional Dependence
• Angry Outbursts Directed At Other People
• Sexual Inappetence
• Feelings Of Shame And Guilt
• Feeling Of Weakness
• Difficulty In Making Decisions
• Culpability
• Flight-based Coping Mechanisms
• Feelings Of Inferiority

Is Your Spouse Psychologically Abusing You

Do you control the money you spend? Do you have to ask your partner for money? Do you ask permission when buying something, either for yourself or for the house?

Does he tell you how you have to dress? If you go in some way that he doesn't like, does he get mad at you for it and decide to change your clothes? Are there clothes that you no longer wear because you know that they don't like you to go like that and you're going to have problems because of it?

Does he get angry if you invest more time in your friends or family than he considers necessary?

Do you have sex even if you don't feel like it because if you don't, he gets angry? Count the times you do things that you don't feel like doing or that you don't agree with to avoid an argument.

Do you control your mobile and your social networks? Do you have to inform him of your schedules?

Do you downplay your personal or professional achievements? When you do something for your partner, does he thank you or make you feel like it's your obligation?

Do you organize your free time? Do you feel that in your spare time you have to consult him on what to spend your time on?

When you have a problem, do you minimize it with comments of the type: that's nothing, do you complain about vice, etc.?

When an argument has taken place, on most occasions do you give in, even though you are right, because he could spend days without speaking to you and ignoring you?  

 

If he has a problem outside the scope of the couple, does he make you feel responsible for it ?

Does he make you feel like you wouldn't know how to move on if you weren't by his side?

Do you feel guilty when you get sick?

If you are in public, are you afraid to say what you think in case it brings you consequences with your partner?

Do you often use emotional blackmail to achieve your goals?

Does it remind you a thousand times of the mistakes you've made?

Have you stopped telling your relationship problems to those around you because you know that if they found out they would be angry?

Are you afraid to say some things to him because you know that his reaction may be disproportionate?

Do you notice that when the same act is carried out by another person, they value it more positively than if it is you who does it?

Do you feel uncomfortable if someone of the opposite sex looks at you in case your partner notices and could be the cause of another argument?

Do you feel like you need their approval for everything you do, or even think?

Has the way he addresses you changed, becoming imperative?

Do you feel that you cannot be yourself when you are with your partner?

Linked to the previous one, do you feel that even without him being there, when you want to be yourself you think that maybe it bothers him and you stop doing the things you wanted?

Does he/she treat you as if he/she were your father/mother instead of your partner ?

Does he make important decisions without taking your opinion into account?

Does it make you doubt your abilities?

Do you feel afraid?

Manipulative People Have These 5 Traits In Common

These individuals often earn the label of manipulators, and unfortunately, society is full of them. They are very clever at making you doubt your abilities, making you feel vulnerable or inferior to others. 

1. They Are Specialized In Detecting The Weaknesses Of Others:

Absolutely all of us have weaknesses, and they are the instrument they use to hurt you, since if you hesitate in what you believe, there is something that makes you ashamed and you want to hide, the manipulative person will try to find out and, if the occasion arises, they can use it in you against

2. They Won't Stop Until They Get What They Want:

They show few qualms about stepping on anyone, for them, the end justifies the means. When they are going to act, their pulse does not tremble to do what is necessary in order to achieve their goals, with all this their behaviors usually go unnoticed since they are good actors.  

 

3. They Are Insatiable:

Manipulation makes them feel powerful and, as is often the case with power, they always want more. Their moral principles are somewhat damaged, being aware that by themselves they are incapable of achieving a goal, but that their manipulative capacity can allow them to reach their goal using the merits of others, behind the backs of others. They are filled with ambition, a desire that, like drugs, produces a kind of addiction.

4. They Need Control:

The manipulator usually suffers from what is known as a superiority complex; They are usually people with traits close to egocentrism and narcissism. They like to improve themselves and exceed the level previously reached, in search of greater and greater challenges.

However, people who feel the need to consider themselves superior to others, even perfect beings, thriving through the merits of others, denote a certain insecurity which they cover with the appearance of power , but which deep down hide an overwhelming fear. to appear weak.

Marrying A Beast

Many have journeyed the relationship hoping for a great ride. 

Along the way, they were devastated having seen the once thriving love dwindle from 100 to 0. 

This is typical of what the devil makes us believe. 

The devil lets you see everything right about someone, and ignore their beastly nature.

It takes one who waits and hears from God to discern before it’s too late.  

 

Today, I pray for you that your spiritual eyes are opened and your mind is set to take the right decision at the right time. 

I pray that God will lead and direct you before making any lifelong decision.

When tomorrow comes, you will look back and thank God that you did what are did today. 

May you not regret in Jesus name!