Who Is A Wife Material?

1. She's not just someone who can cook, wash your clothes, or clean the house. Besides anyone can do that; you can always get a maid for that.
2. She's that woman, even when the world is against you she's got your back.
3. She's that woman who no matter how things get rough/tough you can always count on her.
4. She's that woman even when you don't know who to turn to anymore, she's always telling you I'm here for you and will never let go.
5. She’s never your pain. She is that woman who can turn your house into a home.  Not everyone can do it.
6. She walks beside you, not in front of you or behind you.
7. She can leave in one place and still be in one place waiting for you. Not fooling around with another man when you’re not there.
8. She will always stand in the gap for her beloved husband.
9. Husbands, please appreciate her if she’s one because they’re rare.
10. She never cheats because of financial instability, and she'll always be a mirror of her husband's grace and happiness
11. She supports your strengths and assists your weaknesses.
    

How To Get Your Wife Obsessed With You

𝟓 𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐓𝐎 𝐁𝐄 𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐄𝐃, 𝐎𝐁𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐄𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐔𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐆𝐀𝐈𝐍.

Whether your relationship is feeling stale & average or like you are roommates more than actual lovers you can flip that dynamic around with these 5 ways.

1) Understand You as a man have the power to have the relationship you want. By simply first acknowledging that and then owning your role that you play in your marriage WITHOUT looking at what your partner is doing or isn’t doing you can start creating big changes in your relationship by leading with your own example and setting the tone for the dynamic in your marriage.

2) Get crystal clear on what relationship you want to have with your woman and put in the work and the commitment to create exactly what you want. The most effective and fastest way you can do this is getting yourself a coach either myself or another coach who you connect with, I did the same for my own relationship having a coach who supported me personally on my journey as a man and within my relationship. 

3) Get curious, get attentive, and begin to listen in depth and understand her mind and needs, how she thinks and feels so you can be one step ahead. This shows her that you care about her needs and know them before she even asks you. Women love it when you pay attention. For example for my woman I like to, without saying anything, take over and do the things around the house she would normally do, meanwhile making her a coffee and letting her have her alone time this creates the same dynamic the other way around.

4) Be selfish. This one is for a specific character and man. This is the key in you having her fall madly in love with you. When I say be selfish I mean, know your own goals, and interests and have strong boundaries so that you can feel fulfilled within yourself first and show up AS THAT STRONG, SELF AWARE HUSBAND AND LEADER.

5) Talk about your goals, goals in common together, and your vision for you and each other and work towards the same vision and know her vision too, What is it that she is looking forward to in the future? Can you inspire each other to take more risks, and have something exciting that you both together are looking forward to? Don’t just settle in this life and have a mediocre boring life, strive for an incredible life!

Is this something you would like to see for your relationship?

Why Many Women Are Not Happy In Their Marriages

 

Why is your woman not happy with you? Why is she easily angry, irritable, depressed, frustrated, and very bitter toward you? Why did she lose respect for you in marriage? Why is she so emotionally drained, hates sex, and lost her charm?

1. YOU DON'T APPRECIATE HER:

Some men are perfect complainers and critics. They believe praising a woman will make her head swell and misbehave, even when she s slaving to death, they will rather attack, abuse, complain, and criticize than appreciate her. If you are that type of man, you can never have a happy woman under your roof. A simple "Thank you"," You are doing a great job", and "It's great having you in my life" will do great magic and turn your marriage around. Learn to appreciate your wife when she goes out of her way to please you. She will be happy and that gloom in your marriage will automatically disappear.

2. YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HER:

We are communication beings. I mean women love to talk, be listened to, and be well-understood. When you are too busy to communicate with her, look into her eyeball and let her know she is the most important person to you after God, you will have a frustrated, depressed wife. We understand you can be so busy and needs time to unwind and think, yes! We know but don't make a habit of ignoring your wife. She needs to talk to her daily.

3. YOU CHEAT ON HER:

Double dating is not allowed in courtship, if you cheat on her, she will end it. Chasing side chicks, and having emotional/sexual chats with other women may make your wife lose her mind. No wife will ever be happy with an adulterer. Stop it now and work on your marriage or you may end up divorced.

4. YOU DON'T ADMIRE HER: Unhappy Couple

Some men will look at their very beautiful wife, and acknowledge her beauty and attractiveness but open their mouths and say it is big problem. Some men need to be taught how to admire their women. Learn to open your mouth and tell your wife she's beautiful daily. No man out there should do that for you, it's your job. Admire her when she makes effort to look good for you. Admire her hair, body, and natural endowments. Admire her uniqueness. Open your mouth and tell her. Women need to hear this as often as possible. Any time hubby tells me I'm so beautiful, well-endowed, and irresistible, I can't help blushing. My day is made!

5. YOU RUSH IN AND OUT OF SEX:

Little or no foreplay will leave her dry and uninterested. Rushing in and rushing out of sex is a killer of sexual intimacy in marriage. Learn to be romantic. Be patient with her, and take things slowly till she is ready for intercourse. Do not roll over and sleep when it is over. Pull her in your arms. Let her sleep in your arms. There is nothing as blissful as sleeping in my husband's arms, let your wife sleep in your arms.

6. YOU DON'T ASSIST WITH CHORES

You sit in front of the TV with remote in hand and a toothpick in between your teeth while your wife is slaving in the kitchen, changing diapers, helping your kids with assignments, answering phone calls from clients, sweeping the apartment, and preparing for the next day's work. That's very bad. Your wife works as much as you do if not more. Learn to assist your woman at home. Don't turn her to your maid, don't watch her die of stress, and don't make her look older than you.

7. YOU COMPARE HER WITH OTHER WOMEN.

That's a shame. If you love her the way those women's husbands love them, she will be more virtuous than them all. Stop comparing your wife with women you don't know their weaknesses. If their husbands tell you the other side they have been enduring you will thank God for yours. The grass always looks greener on the other side. Stop being covetous. Work on your marriage and have a better wife.

8. YOU CORRECT HER IN PUBLIC:

Nothing embarrasses a woman more like her husband correcting or shouting at her in public. It is demeaning and very babyish. Every form of correction should take place in the house before stepping out and if at all you must correct as a matter of urgency, call her aside and speak to her softly, maturely, and discreetly. You will earn her honor for protecting her image, and she will respect you more and be happy with you.

9. YOU LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER AGAINST HER

This is wrong. You are not joined to your mother but your wife. You are not one with your mum but with your wife. Some men don't understand the language of leaving and cleaving. You leave every form of emotional intimacy with your parents and bond with your wife. You should talk first to your wife not your mum when making decisions. Both of you should speak with one voice to your mum. Some men even leave the home running their marriage to the mother and treat their wives like slaves in their marriage. No woman will ever be happy with you in that kind of arrangement -never!

10. YOU DON'T TAKE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES

How can a woman ever be happy with a husband who spends all his money on himself and his extended family members and little or nothing on his wife and children? These men appear nice, very generous, and philanthropic outside but inside, the woman is suffering, hungry and indebted. The rent is in arrears, children are sent home for school fees, and debtors are harassed to bless him, but the tears of the wife and children are cursing him. Your wife's curse will work faster than all the supposed blessings you expect from your eye service. Charity begins at home. Your wife and children are more important than others.

Take care of them first before taking care of outsiders. When your family is happy, well-fed, and has clothing, they will be happy and bless you. People will bless you for helping you. God will also bless you abundantly.

Learn to put first things first. When your wife is happy with you, your life will run smoothly, doors of favor will open to you and you will increase in health, wealth, and prosperity.

Do not make your wife unhappy, it will affect your marriage.

May the good Lord help you be the best husband in the world to your wife. You will not fail in your marriage.

Why Men Are Called The "Groom” On The Wedding Day

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after the wedding.

He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIVES that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING, and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is mature enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be GROOMED. 

It is clear that many of our men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, and they want the wives to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not because the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

MEN expectations are often too unrealistic because they do not remember that change takes TIME and they can only expect something from someone that knows what they want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you GROOMED her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Do you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk. GOD often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weakness. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? THE PROBLEM WITH MANY OF US IS THAT WE DO NOT ACCEPT PEOPLE BEFORE ATTEMPTING TO CHANGE THEM.

Of course, wives are not from husbands' backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her. ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what GROOMING is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her. She may be a TURTLE 🐢 and you are a HAWK. She cannot fly, so be PATIENT with her. I DO not believe that your Marriage cannot work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

MAY ALMIGHTY GOD CONTINUE TO BE WITH US, GUIDE AND PROTECT US IN ALL OUR MARRIAGE AFFAIRS AMEN!

Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies, Bros, and Married ones here.

You will have the Marriage of your dreams. a Marriage made in Heaven!

13 Sentences You Should Never Tell Your Husband

1.  "YOU SHOULD MAN UP"

If your intention is to challenge him to be better, these are not the words to use. These words make him feel undermined and belittled.

2. "BEAT ME IF YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH"

Don't provoke him. Don't test him. Don't put you and him in a situation where you both say or do ugly things.

3. "YOU ARE SUCH A MAMA'S BOY"

Even if you think he is accommodating his mother too much, saying this makes him feel you are attacking his mother. His mom will always be his mom. Find a way of honoring his mother as you pull him closer to you to build as a couple. Correct him without insulting his relationship with his mother. 

4. "F*CK YOU"

Curse words communicate disrespect. Hold your tongue. 

5. "GROW UP SOMETIMES"

This, similar to "Grow some balls" makes him feel you see him as a boy. You can inspire him to greatness without making him feel you are looking down on him.

6. "MY FRIENDS WERE RIGHT ABOUT YOU"

This communicates you are gossiping about him and you value more what others say about him than the man you personally know him to be.

7. "I REGRET MARRYING YOU"

In moments of anger, don't speak words that sow seeds of doubt in him. Communicate your disappointment in his specific actions without putting into question what you two have built all this time. 

8. "YOU DON'T SATISFY ME IN BED"

Don't mock his sexual performance in bed yet want the same man and the same penis to satisfy you in the future. Men make love with their heart and their ego. When you praise the little he does right to please you, he will seek to do more to pleasure you.

9. "WHY CAN'T YOU BE LIKE OTHER MEN?"

Don't compare him with other men. He is unique. Speak to his individual identity.

10. "DID YOU EVEN GO TO SCHOOL?"

Don't mock his intellect, especially if you have a more formal education than him. You get nothing positive out of bringing a man down. Remember there was a time you used to admire him, speak to that man in him.

11. "I AM WEARING THE PANTS IN THIS HOUSE"

Don't make him feel useless or his position undermined. He will withdraw and pull away. When a man feels unappreciated, he puts in little effort. 

12. "YOU ARE SUCH A LOSER"

Why become his worst critic? These are not words that should come out of a life partner.

13. "I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED ANOTHER MAN"

Why hit him below the belt. If you are done with him, leave him for good; instead of remaining in the marriage, praying for the marriage yet inside the marriage, you are attacking him.

Lady, your biggest ammunition is your tongue. Your biggest encouragement to your husband, are your words and tone.

How To Wake Up Your Woman

There are many ways to love her..

1. KISS HER ON THE FOREHEAD when the alarm rings and she struggles to wake up

2. RUB AND SENSUALLY TOUCH her thighs, hips, back, nipples; so that she wakes up aroused. She loves being turned on by her husband for morning glory

3. OCCASIONALLY PREPARE BREAKFAST IN BED. Let her wake up to being pampered. Surprise her once in a while

4. STARE AT HER WHEN HER EYES ARE ABOUT TO OPEN. She loves it when your loving eyes are the first thing she sees

5. PRAY FOR HER FIRST THING WHEN SHE WAKES UP. Then kiss her lips to say "Amen"

6. LET HER WAKE UP TO YOUR HOLD, YOUR EMBRACE as you have a calm and intimate conversation with her. Sometimes a woman wants a quiet morning

7. LET HER WAKE UP TO THE VIEW OF YOUR CARRYING YOUR CHILD, giving her a break; especially when she stayed up till late looking after your child

8. GO INSIDE UNDER THE COVERS AND LICK HER BETWEEN HER LEGS; especially when you two sleep naked. She loves it when her husband makes her wet in the morning, then make love to start the day with passion

9. CALL HER OR TEXT HER A SWEET LOVING MESSAGE, words of blessing; if you two wake up far from each other. Distance shouldn't be an excuse not to start her day with a smile

10. KISS HER SKIN, FINGERS AND PARTS OF HER BODY as you tell her how beautiful she looks, how proud you are she is yours, how amazing she is, how she is going to have a great day. Tell her she is still the one, even in this new day

The woman determines the mood of the house, the mood of the woman is dependent on how her husband treats her first thing in the morning. When a man makes his woman feel special, he is actually looking after his own interest and home. A loved up woman, governs the home with love, she loves good in return. She glows through out the day. Start the day right.

~John Nazzy.