Pride & Arrogance Destroy Your Marriage and Family

Pride and arrogance destroy your marriage and family. Arrogance destroys glory, it is more deadly than cancer. 

One might be arrogant without even knowing, that is why there's need to read through this points carefully and observe areas that needs to be worked upon for positive change

1.   When you cannot submit yourself to higher authority.

2.  When you find it difficult to accept corrections.

3.  When you are too big to say “sorry”.

4.  When you think that your success or achievements are based on your efforts.

5.  When you don’t have respect for people.

6.  When you are always feeling superior to others.

 7.   When you always want to control or dominate others.

 8.   When you think that you are better than other people.

  9.  When you cannot work under those with lesser qualifications.

 10.   When you are always angry at those who correct you.

11.   When you avoid those who criticize you for NOT understanding their Rationality.

 12.   When you feel too big to learn.

 13.   When you feel ashamed to ask questions about what you don’t know.

 14.   When you are always bragging about your achievements/connections.

 15.   When you don’t consider it necessary to say “thank you” to those who help you.

 16.   When you think that nobody knows more than you.

 17.   When you think that you cannot make mistakes.

 18.  When you think that you know everything in life.

 19.   When you look at those who helped you to get to the top as nothing.

 20.   When you refused to appreciate those who have been a blessing to your life even when you have over enough to do so. 

 One can only attend greatness only in simplicity. Humility is the best!

Healthy Traits In A Family Or Relationship

1. Genuine relationships are HONEST with each other. No lying and withholding information. 

2. You completely TRUST each other. Without trust, there is no relationship.

3. They are your biggest cheerleaders.

4. You can trust each other with everything including your house and your money.

5. They tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.

6. They hold you accountable.

7. They’re the first person you call when something amazing happens.

8. They’ll always pick up the phone when you call.

9. They’re the first to apologize when they mess up.

10. They have your back. They are loyal and defend you.

11. You have inside jokes galore.

12. They’re the best person to have a deep conversation with.

13. They care about how they make you feel. 

14. They check in on you, even when they have big things going on.

15. They pray with and for you.

16. They will tell you the truth even if it means losing you when you are doing something sinful. 

17. They care more about your soul and your well-being than their needs.

18. They regularly encourage you and tell you how much you mean to them and God.

19. You spend quality time together at each other's homes, and each other's family, and share each other's friends.

20. They are consistent and reliable.

21. They do what they say including" I'll call you right back" or "I'll call you tonight". 

22. They don't create drama for you, they are mature.

23. You feel loved by them.

24. They find ways to bless you.

25. The hug they give you makes you feel loved.

26. They respect you. 

27. Your enemies are their enemies.

28. Your God is their God.

29. You feel emotionally, spiritually, and physically safe with them.

30. They genuinely sit and listen to you without interrupting and show care and empathy.

31. They don't want to lose you and fight for you.

Let Me Give You Facts About Quiet People

 

1. Quiet people talk a lot inside of their heart, sometimes they talk alone.

2. Once they get comfortable with you they get crazy and wild.

3. They speak in thoughts and heart.

4. They are shy, they can't maintain eye contact a lot.

5. They have too much anger don't get them pissed off. And they know  how to micromanage their anger issues. 

6. They are strong and very intelligent.

7. They are very crazy on social media (sometimes)

8. They have very cool personalities and are fun to be with.

9. Their minds are always calculating, they are overthinking too much. Bad things and good things. That's how I have noticed. 

10. They are loyal and love the most in relationships. When quite  people they are in a relationship they love you wholeheartedly. They love deep. But if they don't love you, they leave you completely due to their love is very strong. 

11. They never show their pain, and they are emotional people. 

12. Some of them are depressed and alone but they pretend, deep down they feel like to be alone,  they are introvert people.

13. They've got the cutest smile and weirdest laughter.

14. Most of them they like facts, and they are honest.

15. Quiet people are likely to be secretive, also   they hide many things, but if you want to make them feel uncomfortable nor melancholy they will tell the truth as it is without any fear.

16. Quiet people are introverts they are actually happy when they are alone. As long as they are busy with what they love. It's okay. 

17. Quiet people, and introvert people create their own scenes in their mind and believe them. 

18. Quiet people, and introverted people they love to read. Reading books, especially novels both fiction and nonfiction books. Sometimes inspirational books (self help books).