Rules For Being A Good Husband And Keeping Your Wife Happy

 

What are the rules for being a good husband and keeping your wife happy?

If you want a successful marriage, here are the rules for being a good husband and keeping your wife happy:

1. Yоu ѕhоuld avoid taking уоur wife fоr granted. A good husband honours аnd respects him wife. A good husband won’t belittle hiѕ wife аnd treat hеr аѕ аn inferior being.

2. Yоur wife ѕhоuld bе уоur number оnе priority nоt уоur father, mother, brothers, sisters оr аnу blood relative. Yоu can’t hаvе a successful marriage if уоu don’t make уоur wife уоur priority.

3. Yоu ѕhоuld frequently tеll уоur wife hоw muсh уоu love hеr аnd show hеr thrоugh уоur actions too. Yоu make hеr feel loved аnd valued whеn уоu аlwауѕ tеll hеr уоu love her.

4. Dо nоt stop dating уоur wife аftеr marriage. Mаnу men ѕее marriage аѕ a goal accomplished аnd stop giving thеir wife thе attention thеу gave hеr whilе dating her. Yоur wife wаntѕ thе chase tо continue аftеr marriage. Kеер dоing аll thе sweet things уоu did whilе dating her.

5. Yоu ѕhоuld kеер tо уоur words. Failed promises саn destroy a marriage. Whеn уоu kеер tо уоur words аѕ a husband, уоu earn уоur wife’s trust.

6. Nо woman wаntѕ a husband with roving eyes. If уоu wаnt tо hаvе a successful marriage, уоur eyes ѕhоuld bе оn уоur wife alone. Mаnу failed marriages аrе a result оf unfaithful husbands. Yоur wife ѕhоuld bе thе mоѕt beautiful woman in thе world in уоur eyes.

7. Mаnу husbands fail tо ѕее things frоm thеir wife’s perspective аnd thiѕ iѕ wrong. If уоu wаnt уоur marriage tо bе a success, уоu ѕhоuld make аn effort tо ѕее things frоm уоur wife’s point оf view.

8. Yоu аrе expected аѕ a husband tо satisfy thе emotional nееdѕ оf уоur wife. Yоu аrе expected аѕ a husband tо kiss уоur wife еvеrу morning bеfоrе уоu leave fоr work аnd whеn уоu gеt back home.

9. Bе generous with уоur wife whеn it соmеѕ tо money. Whеthеr уоur wife works оr not, уоu аrе expected аѕ a mаn tо рrоvidе fоr her. Stop bеing a stingy husband. There’s nоthing wrong with spending ѕоmе оf уоur hard-earned money оn уоur wife. Shе deserves it.

10. If уоu wаnt to keep your wife happy, уоu ѕhоuld hеlр уоur wife with house chores. Hеlр hеr in thе kitchen, tidy thе bedroom, run errands fоr hеr аnd cook fоr her.

How To Get Your Wife Obsessed With You

𝟓 𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐓𝐎 𝐁𝐄 𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐄𝐃, 𝐎𝐁𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐄𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐔𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐆𝐀𝐈𝐍.

Whether your relationship is feeling stale & average or like you are roommates more than actual lovers you can flip that dynamic around with these 5 ways.

1) Understand You as a man have the power to have the relationship you want. By simply first acknowledging that and then owning your role that you play in your marriage WITHOUT looking at what your partner is doing or isn’t doing you can start creating big changes in your relationship by leading with your own example and setting the tone for the dynamic in your marriage.

2) Get crystal clear on what relationship you want to have with your woman and put in the work and the commitment to create exactly what you want. The most effective and fastest way you can do this is getting yourself a coach either myself or another coach who you connect with, I did the same for my own relationship having a coach who supported me personally on my journey as a man and within my relationship. 

3) Get curious, get attentive, and begin to listen in depth and understand her mind and needs, how she thinks and feels so you can be one step ahead. This shows her that you care about her needs and know them before she even asks you. Women love it when you pay attention. For example for my woman I like to, without saying anything, take over and do the things around the house she would normally do, meanwhile making her a coffee and letting her have her alone time this creates the same dynamic the other way around.

4) Be selfish. This one is for a specific character and man. This is the key in you having her fall madly in love with you. When I say be selfish I mean, know your own goals, and interests and have strong boundaries so that you can feel fulfilled within yourself first and show up AS THAT STRONG, SELF AWARE HUSBAND AND LEADER.

5) Talk about your goals, goals in common together, and your vision for you and each other and work towards the same vision and know her vision too, What is it that she is looking forward to in the future? Can you inspire each other to take more risks, and have something exciting that you both together are looking forward to? Don’t just settle in this life and have a mediocre boring life, strive for an incredible life!

Is this something you would like to see for your relationship?

8 Things God Expects of Husbands

1. He Pursues God. 

- Men can’t lead right if they don’t follow Jesus right. 

2. He is a Provider. 

- Boys are cared by their mothers. Men provide for themselves. Mature men provide for their families. 

3.  He is Proactive. 

- Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Genesis 2:24

4. He is a Pastor of his family. 

- He leads his family and wife closer to Jesus.

Genesis 3:9

5.  He walks in Purity. 

- Remember that the grass is not greener on the other side. Fight to keep the fire within your marriage.

6. He is to be Perceptive.  

- If you know what bothers her, don’t do it.

If you know what she likes, do more of it. 

7. He is a Protector

- Not bully but builder. Leader, not lord. 

8. He is Passionate

- Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her. Ephesians 5:25

Why Many Women Are Not Happy In Their Marriages

 

Why is your woman not happy with you? Why is she easily angry, irritable, depressed, frustrated, and very bitter toward you? Why did she lose respect for you in marriage? Why is she so emotionally drained, hates sex, and lost her charm?

1. YOU DON'T APPRECIATE HER:

Some men are perfect complainers and critics. They believe praising a woman will make her head swell and misbehave, even when she s slaving to death, they will rather attack, abuse, complain, and criticize than appreciate her. If you are that type of man, you can never have a happy woman under your roof. A simple "Thank you"," You are doing a great job", and "It's great having you in my life" will do great magic and turn your marriage around. Learn to appreciate your wife when she goes out of her way to please you. She will be happy and that gloom in your marriage will automatically disappear.

2. YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HER:

We are communication beings. I mean women love to talk, be listened to, and be well-understood. When you are too busy to communicate with her, look into her eyeball and let her know she is the most important person to you after God, you will have a frustrated, depressed wife. We understand you can be so busy and needs time to unwind and think, yes! We know but don't make a habit of ignoring your wife. She needs to talk to her daily.

3. YOU CHEAT ON HER:

Double dating is not allowed in courtship, if you cheat on her, she will end it. Chasing side chicks, and having emotional/sexual chats with other women may make your wife lose her mind. No wife will ever be happy with an adulterer. Stop it now and work on your marriage or you may end up divorced.

4. YOU DON'T ADMIRE HER: Unhappy Couple

Some men will look at their very beautiful wife, and acknowledge her beauty and attractiveness but open their mouths and say it is big problem. Some men need to be taught how to admire their women. Learn to open your mouth and tell your wife she's beautiful daily. No man out there should do that for you, it's your job. Admire her when she makes effort to look good for you. Admire her hair, body, and natural endowments. Admire her uniqueness. Open your mouth and tell her. Women need to hear this as often as possible. Any time hubby tells me I'm so beautiful, well-endowed, and irresistible, I can't help blushing. My day is made!

5. YOU RUSH IN AND OUT OF SEX:

Little or no foreplay will leave her dry and uninterested. Rushing in and rushing out of sex is a killer of sexual intimacy in marriage. Learn to be romantic. Be patient with her, and take things slowly till she is ready for intercourse. Do not roll over and sleep when it is over. Pull her in your arms. Let her sleep in your arms. There is nothing as blissful as sleeping in my husband's arms, let your wife sleep in your arms.

6. YOU DON'T ASSIST WITH CHORES

You sit in front of the TV with remote in hand and a toothpick in between your teeth while your wife is slaving in the kitchen, changing diapers, helping your kids with assignments, answering phone calls from clients, sweeping the apartment, and preparing for the next day's work. That's very bad. Your wife works as much as you do if not more. Learn to assist your woman at home. Don't turn her to your maid, don't watch her die of stress, and don't make her look older than you.

7. YOU COMPARE HER WITH OTHER WOMEN.

That's a shame. If you love her the way those women's husbands love them, she will be more virtuous than them all. Stop comparing your wife with women you don't know their weaknesses. If their husbands tell you the other side they have been enduring you will thank God for yours. The grass always looks greener on the other side. Stop being covetous. Work on your marriage and have a better wife.

8. YOU CORRECT HER IN PUBLIC:

Nothing embarrasses a woman more like her husband correcting or shouting at her in public. It is demeaning and very babyish. Every form of correction should take place in the house before stepping out and if at all you must correct as a matter of urgency, call her aside and speak to her softly, maturely, and discreetly. You will earn her honor for protecting her image, and she will respect you more and be happy with you.

9. YOU LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER AGAINST HER

This is wrong. You are not joined to your mother but your wife. You are not one with your mum but with your wife. Some men don't understand the language of leaving and cleaving. You leave every form of emotional intimacy with your parents and bond with your wife. You should talk first to your wife not your mum when making decisions. Both of you should speak with one voice to your mum. Some men even leave the home running their marriage to the mother and treat their wives like slaves in their marriage. No woman will ever be happy with you in that kind of arrangement -never!

10. YOU DON'T TAKE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES

How can a woman ever be happy with a husband who spends all his money on himself and his extended family members and little or nothing on his wife and children? These men appear nice, very generous, and philanthropic outside but inside, the woman is suffering, hungry and indebted. The rent is in arrears, children are sent home for school fees, and debtors are harassed to bless him, but the tears of the wife and children are cursing him. Your wife's curse will work faster than all the supposed blessings you expect from your eye service. Charity begins at home. Your wife and children are more important than others.

Take care of them first before taking care of outsiders. When your family is happy, well-fed, and has clothing, they will be happy and bless you. People will bless you for helping you. God will also bless you abundantly.

Learn to put first things first. When your wife is happy with you, your life will run smoothly, doors of favor will open to you and you will increase in health, wealth, and prosperity.

Do not make your wife unhappy, it will affect your marriage.

May the good Lord help you be the best husband in the world to your wife. You will not fail in your marriage.

Why Men Are Called The "Groom” On The Wedding Day

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after the wedding.

He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIVES that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING, and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is mature enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be GROOMED. 

It is clear that many of our men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, and they want the wives to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not because the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

MEN expectations are often too unrealistic because they do not remember that change takes TIME and they can only expect something from someone that knows what they want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you GROOMED her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Do you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk. GOD often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weakness. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? THE PROBLEM WITH MANY OF US IS THAT WE DO NOT ACCEPT PEOPLE BEFORE ATTEMPTING TO CHANGE THEM.

Of course, wives are not from husbands' backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her. ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what GROOMING is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her. She may be a TURTLE 🐢 and you are a HAWK. She cannot fly, so be PATIENT with her. I DO not believe that your Marriage cannot work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

MAY ALMIGHTY GOD CONTINUE TO BE WITH US, GUIDE AND PROTECT US IN ALL OUR MARRIAGE AFFAIRS AMEN!

Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies, Bros, and Married ones here.

You will have the Marriage of your dreams. a Marriage made in Heaven!

Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage For Men

1. Rejecting Food When There's An Issue:

Mr husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling Your Wife Severally That You Are The Head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys /disrespects you she still knows that you are the head? You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however, don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing Threats: 

beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce, or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, plays the "matured man."

4. Reporting Your Wife To Friends And Family: 

When your wife offends you, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. By the way, are you a reporter answering my question?

5. Keeping Malice: 

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticize, abuse, and call their wife's names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not Helping With House Chores: 

I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full-time housewife. However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with a newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and soothe her, this also makes you a good example to the kids, especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal meals; a big shame.

My Point?

A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.

Sorry if I offend anyone with this post but that’s it. Thanks. 

By the way, I hope there is little sense in this post .!!

13 Sentences You Should Never Tell Your Husband

1.  "YOU SHOULD MAN UP"

If your intention is to challenge him to be better, these are not the words to use. These words make him feel undermined and belittled.

2. "BEAT ME IF YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH"

Don't provoke him. Don't test him. Don't put you and him in a situation where you both say or do ugly things.

3. "YOU ARE SUCH A MAMA'S BOY"

Even if you think he is accommodating his mother too much, saying this makes him feel you are attacking his mother. His mom will always be his mom. Find a way of honoring his mother as you pull him closer to you to build as a couple. Correct him without insulting his relationship with his mother. 

4. "F*CK YOU"

Curse words communicate disrespect. Hold your tongue. 

5. "GROW UP SOMETIMES"

This, similar to "Grow some balls" makes him feel you see him as a boy. You can inspire him to greatness without making him feel you are looking down on him.

6. "MY FRIENDS WERE RIGHT ABOUT YOU"

This communicates you are gossiping about him and you value more what others say about him than the man you personally know him to be.

7. "I REGRET MARRYING YOU"

In moments of anger, don't speak words that sow seeds of doubt in him. Communicate your disappointment in his specific actions without putting into question what you two have built all this time. 

8. "YOU DON'T SATISFY ME IN BED"

Don't mock his sexual performance in bed yet want the same man and the same penis to satisfy you in the future. Men make love with their heart and their ego. When you praise the little he does right to please you, he will seek to do more to pleasure you.

9. "WHY CAN'T YOU BE LIKE OTHER MEN?"

Don't compare him with other men. He is unique. Speak to his individual identity.

10. "DID YOU EVEN GO TO SCHOOL?"

Don't mock his intellect, especially if you have a more formal education than him. You get nothing positive out of bringing a man down. Remember there was a time you used to admire him, speak to that man in him.

11. "I AM WEARING THE PANTS IN THIS HOUSE"

Don't make him feel useless or his position undermined. He will withdraw and pull away. When a man feels unappreciated, he puts in little effort. 

12. "YOU ARE SUCH A LOSER"

Why become his worst critic? These are not words that should come out of a life partner.

13. "I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED ANOTHER MAN"

Why hit him below the belt. If you are done with him, leave him for good; instead of remaining in the marriage, praying for the marriage yet inside the marriage, you are attacking him.

Lady, your biggest ammunition is your tongue. Your biggest encouragement to your husband, are your words and tone.

How To Wake Up Your Woman

There are many ways to love her..

1. KISS HER ON THE FOREHEAD when the alarm rings and she struggles to wake up

2. RUB AND SENSUALLY TOUCH her thighs, hips, back, nipples; so that she wakes up aroused. She loves being turned on by her husband for morning glory

3. OCCASIONALLY PREPARE BREAKFAST IN BED. Let her wake up to being pampered. Surprise her once in a while

4. STARE AT HER WHEN HER EYES ARE ABOUT TO OPEN. She loves it when your loving eyes are the first thing she sees

5. PRAY FOR HER FIRST THING WHEN SHE WAKES UP. Then kiss her lips to say "Amen"

6. LET HER WAKE UP TO YOUR HOLD, YOUR EMBRACE as you have a calm and intimate conversation with her. Sometimes a woman wants a quiet morning

7. LET HER WAKE UP TO THE VIEW OF YOUR CARRYING YOUR CHILD, giving her a break; especially when she stayed up till late looking after your child

8. GO INSIDE UNDER THE COVERS AND LICK HER BETWEEN HER LEGS; especially when you two sleep naked. She loves it when her husband makes her wet in the morning, then make love to start the day with passion

9. CALL HER OR TEXT HER A SWEET LOVING MESSAGE, words of blessing; if you two wake up far from each other. Distance shouldn't be an excuse not to start her day with a smile

10. KISS HER SKIN, FINGERS AND PARTS OF HER BODY as you tell her how beautiful she looks, how proud you are she is yours, how amazing she is, how she is going to have a great day. Tell her she is still the one, even in this new day

The woman determines the mood of the house, the mood of the woman is dependent on how her husband treats her first thing in the morning. When a man makes his woman feel special, he is actually looking after his own interest and home. A loved up woman, governs the home with love, she loves good in return. She glows through out the day. Start the day right.

~John Nazzy.

Touching Story - Father Decided To Re-Marry

Touching Story! 😓😪

An 8-year-old boy lost his mum. He was so sad and depressed. A year after his Mum's demise, his father decided to re-marry.

One day, the boy's father called him and asked, "Is there any difference between your mother and and your step-mother?"

The boy answered, "Yes." His dad then asked him, "What's the difference?" The boy innocently replied, "My mother used to lie to me but my step mother doesn't."

His Father was surprised, he asked, "What do you mean? "The boy then replied, "When I go to my friends house, I usually play rough, my mum would tell me not to play rough or else she won't give me food. When my mum sees that I wasn't at home at the expected time, she would leave whatever she was doing and come to meet me wherever I was. She would then take me home and give me food. But my stepmother always keeps to her word. I have been hungry for the past two days. I MISS MY MUM.

LESSON: 

No one can take the place of a mother. May our Mothers live to eat the fruit of their labor.

I Will Tell My Daughter Before Sending Her Off

1) No man is perfect

2) Men are like children. So be like his mother.

3) Hear quickly; talk slowly.

4) Never compete with a man.

5) Never try to be equal with him.

6) Be fast to apologize when you know you are wrong.

7) Don't be too jealous of him. This is good for your peace of mind.

8) You may check on his phone if you want, but that isn't necessary.

9) Always be honest as a wife.

10) Never leave your house for a long distance without his permission.

11) Make sure you know the food he likes, and prepare that at least twice a week if money allows.

12) Don't let your husband get in the house with a parcel in his hand.

13) Try to make a budget together.

14) Be his adviser, not a criticizer.

15) Don't ever forget that a wife is a helper of the husband.

16) Learn good things from your mother.

17) When God blesses you with children, never give more attention to your children and forget your husband.

18) Learn to smile at your husband.

19) When your husband knocks off from work, greet him. If possible, hug him.

20) Don't let your husband leave the house without eating. This may mean "eat" and "eat".

21) When you husband becomes angry, stop talking.

22) Keep the bedroom clean always.

23) Never put clothes on the bed. Some men hate that.

24) Be a clean woman.

25) Look romantic.

26) Always remember to do what a wife should do. You are not his sister.

27) Treat his relatives as you would treat yours.

28) Oftentimes ask how his relatives are doing.

29) Go to church together.

30) Never compare your husband or your house to someone else's.

SECRET OF HAPPY HOME!

Advice To Men About Their Pregnant Wives

I am a man, but today I want us to discuss about Pregnancy.

Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contribute to the state of health of the mother and unborn child?

Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern for their pregnant wives or failing to adjust to some temporary changes!

It's just 9 months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, nor is it software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted by us men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.

Pregnancy is preparation to welcome a new member into the family. Pregnancy is a journey fun-filled, amazing, etc.

Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.

■ Once in a while she would nag.

■ Once in a while she would request things unimaginable food e.g she wants to eat Lady Finger and Bread.

■ Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals.

■ Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your lap. Please pardon her! Carrying the baby ain't easy.

Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.

The first Trimester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say women differ from each other during pregnancy.

● While most women are busy vomiting.

● Most of them sleep like water leaves. They sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.

● While most women have a fever.

● Most women be looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.

● While most women add up weight.

Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterward.

Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you can't stand her. It's so sad to see men neglect their pregnant wives. She's not an abomination, and neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all.

The last Trimester is when we need to be extra patient, loving, enduring, and understanding.

NOTE!

1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treats women enjoy during pregnancy.

2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her move.

3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g " Honey see as the pregnancy makes you fine, I will be impregnating you every month ooo" or even "is it my child that makes you fresh like this past normal" Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her.

4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet. We need to feel a little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's our baby, we need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).

5) No rule book stopped sex during pregnancy, in short, it's the best self.... do it. It's not like the vagina stopped working during pregnancy. o boy continues the work that brings the pregnancy.

6) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovie dovie places you used to go together. They love it!

Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.

I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.

A big shout out to all men who fully stand by their wives during pregnancy. 

God bless you all the women after delivery!

Ask forgiveness from your husband for been with you at the time of need because is not easy.

How To Make Your Husband Love You

1. Call him by a pet name

2. Allow him to exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" whenever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness, and appreciate and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.

7. Honor his mother

8. Insist that he buys gifts for his parents and so be sure that he will do the same for your parents

9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delays his food.

10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because you may lose him to her.

11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children sometimes.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put a love note in his lunch box or briefcase.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love you.

18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him in the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be enticed by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.

20. Give him a hug for no reason.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.

22. Always remember to pray for him.

23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...

May God bless your Marriage. Singles may you experience true love today and forever!

May non-serious people that will waste your time be disconnected in your life In Jesus' Name.

Penniless Father Of Three Kids Commits Suicide

Phillip Herron was a single father raising his three children, struggling with crushing debt of over $20,000, and was desperately waiting for a Payday loan he'd applied for. 

But it was paid in arrears, with a 5-week wait time but the desperate father could not wait for that long which drove him even deeper into debt, and when he died he had $4.61 in his bank account and clearly couldn't see any other way out.

Like many people, especially men, he kept all of this to himself, nobody else knew how bad things were getting. This poor man even had to tell his children that Santa Claus wouldn’t come this year, and in his suicide note, he wrote that they'd be better off if he weren't around anymore.

Moments before his death, Herron posted a photo on social media on March 18 of him sitting in his car as he wept.

He left a note that was found by his mother, Sheena Derbyshire: in it, he said that his family "would be better off without him."  

 

“His death was a total shock. I couldn't understand why I would do this," Derbyshire said in an interview with Daily Mirror in an interview.

Since no one knew of Phillip Herron's problems, his mother linked the events that led to his suicide.

Derbyshire found an eviction notice hidden in her son's house. Then, she cracked the password on her phone. Phillip's phone password, and discovered hundreds of phone calls where he was aggressive with his interlocutors.

"I heard him talk about suicide. I wish she had told us how she felt, but we never knew," the mother lamented.

Men Needs Our Support Too

I received a text message about my salary. It was credited to my account. 

I immediately rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute to our family.  

My husband thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him. 

I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's tuition teacher so that he would stop thinking about it. 

That's when I realized that he was doing so much for our family without complaining.

Most husbands see it like it's their duty. When the financial burden is too much, they struggle to pay without asking their wives. 

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is so less than what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.  

 

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can reduce his stress. 

I told my husband, that he didn't marry a responsibility, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single. 

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

My hubby immediately went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home, cooked, and served me.

This small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about. 

I will keep working harder and doing my best because men also need our support, they are not a supermarket.  

MEN NEEDS OUR SUPPORT TOO...

Appreciate Your Husbands

1. Appreciate your husband if he treats you well. It is hard to find a good man.

2. Appreciate your husband if he is faithful to you. It is easier to find an unfaithful man than it is to find a faithful one.

3. Appreciate your husband if he works hard to provide for your family, no matter how much or little he brings home. This world has a lot of lazy men.

4. Appreciate your husband if he can handle the stains in your dark past. It is hard to find a man who can understand you and love you despite your mistakes.

5. Appreciate your husband if he shows you off to other women. He is proud to be your man.

6. Appreciate your husband if he takes the time to listen to you. He cares.

7. Appreciate your husband if he loves being sober. Far too many men are lost in alcohol.

8. Appreciate your husband if he tells you his secrets if he lets you see his weaknesses, and if is naked and vulnerable to you. Men don't open up or trust easily.

9. Appreciate your husband if he has never beaten you up. Out there are many hurting women physically abused but your man uses his strength to protect you.

10. Appreciate your husband if he tells you the truth no matter how painful it is. An honest man is reliable, you can trust him.  

 

11. Appreciate your husband if he corrects you when you are wrong. He is looking out for you.

12. Appreciate your husband if he is not too proud to apologize when he wrongs. He is trying to be better for you, give him a chance.

13. Appreciate your husband if he asks about your family. He respects the people in your life.

14. Appreciate your husband if he marries you instead of cohabiting with you so casually. He wants to spend his life with you and he wants to enter into marriage the right way.

15. Appreciate your husband if he is patient with you. Many men give up easily.

16. Appreciate your husband if he tells he loves you. Those words are not easy to come by from a man.

17. Appreciate your husband if he puts effort to make you happy. He values your smile.

18. Appreciate your husband if he runs to you for help. He needs you.

19. Appreciate your husband if he introduces you to his family and friends. He is serious.

20. Appreciate your husband if he comes home early. Many men have abandoned their homes.

21. Appreciate your husband if he leans on God. It takes humility for a man to submit himself to God.

22. Appreciate your husband if he puts up with your moods, habits, or imperfections. He is committed.

23. Appreciate your husband if he can handle your tears and fears. You are safe with him.

24. Appreciate your husband if he supports your dreams and growth. He is good for you.

25. Appreciate your husband if he is present in your child's life. Too many children have been rejected by their dads.

26. Appreciate your husband if he sexes you good and makes love to you so passionately. It takes a giving man to find joy in giving his woman the highest pleasure.

27. Appreciate your husband if he makes you feel loved because you are loved.