Marriage Is Not For Stubborn Ladies

Marriage is not for loud, stubborn, unteachable Jezebels who still think being a wife means equal power and zero structure. 

Marriage is not a democracy—it’s a divine order. 

The man leads. The woman follows. 

That’s the law. 

If she can’t allow her husband to lead, 

If she’s constantly challenging your decisions, 

Raising her voice, 

And trying to be the head, She doesn’t need a man. 

She needs therapy and distance. 

Because marriage is not for the rebellious. 

It’s for people who understand: 

Teamwork (not competition) 

Respect (not rivalry) 

Order (not confusion)

How To Get Your Wife Obsessed With You

𝟓 𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐓𝐎 𝐁𝐄 𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐄𝐃, 𝐎𝐁𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐄𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐔𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐆𝐀𝐈𝐍.

Whether your relationship is feeling stale & average or like you are roommates more than actual lovers you can flip that dynamic around with these 5 ways.

1) Understand You as a man have the power to have the relationship you want. By simply first acknowledging that and then owning your role that you play in your marriage WITHOUT looking at what your partner is doing or isn’t doing you can start creating big changes in your relationship by leading with your own example and setting the tone for the dynamic in your marriage.

2) Get crystal clear on what relationship you want to have with your woman and put in the work and the commitment to create exactly what you want. The most effective and fastest way you can do this is getting yourself a coach either myself or another coach who you connect with, I did the same for my own relationship having a coach who supported me personally on my journey as a man and within my relationship. 

3) Get curious, get attentive, and begin to listen in depth and understand her mind and needs, how she thinks and feels so you can be one step ahead. This shows her that you care about her needs and know them before she even asks you. Women love it when you pay attention. For example for my woman I like to, without saying anything, take over and do the things around the house she would normally do, meanwhile making her a coffee and letting her have her alone time this creates the same dynamic the other way around.

4) Be selfish. This one is for a specific character and man. This is the key in you having her fall madly in love with you. When I say be selfish I mean, know your own goals, and interests and have strong boundaries so that you can feel fulfilled within yourself first and show up AS THAT STRONG, SELF AWARE HUSBAND AND LEADER.

5) Talk about your goals, goals in common together, and your vision for you and each other and work towards the same vision and know her vision too, What is it that she is looking forward to in the future? Can you inspire each other to take more risks, and have something exciting that you both together are looking forward to? Don’t just settle in this life and have a mediocre boring life, strive for an incredible life!

Is this something you would like to see for your relationship?

Pride & Arrogance Destroy Your Marriage and Family

Pride and arrogance destroy your marriage and family. Arrogance destroys glory, it is more deadly than cancer. 

One might be arrogant without even knowing, that is why there's need to read through this points carefully and observe areas that needs to be worked upon for positive change

1.   When you cannot submit yourself to higher authority.

2.  When you find it difficult to accept corrections.

3.  When you are too big to say “sorry”.

4.  When you think that your success or achievements are based on your efforts.

5.  When you don’t have respect for people.

6.  When you are always feeling superior to others.

 7.   When you always want to control or dominate others.

 8.   When you think that you are better than other people.

  9.  When you cannot work under those with lesser qualifications.

 10.   When you are always angry at those who correct you.

11.   When you avoid those who criticize you for NOT understanding their Rationality.

 12.   When you feel too big to learn.

 13.   When you feel ashamed to ask questions about what you don’t know.

 14.   When you are always bragging about your achievements/connections.

 15.   When you don’t consider it necessary to say “thank you” to those who help you.

 16.   When you think that nobody knows more than you.

 17.   When you think that you cannot make mistakes.

 18.  When you think that you know everything in life.

 19.   When you look at those who helped you to get to the top as nothing.

 20.   When you refused to appreciate those who have been a blessing to your life even when you have over enough to do so. 

 One can only attend greatness only in simplicity. Humility is the best!

Healthy Traits In A Family Or Relationship

1. Genuine relationships are HONEST with each other. No lying and withholding information. 

2. You completely TRUST each other. Without trust, there is no relationship.

3. They are your biggest cheerleaders.

4. You can trust each other with everything including your house and your money.

5. They tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.

6. They hold you accountable.

7. They’re the first person you call when something amazing happens.

8. They’ll always pick up the phone when you call.

9. They’re the first to apologize when they mess up.

10. They have your back. They are loyal and defend you.

11. You have inside jokes galore.

12. They’re the best person to have a deep conversation with.

13. They care about how they make you feel. 

14. They check in on you, even when they have big things going on.

15. They pray with and for you.

16. They will tell you the truth even if it means losing you when you are doing something sinful. 

17. They care more about your soul and your well-being than their needs.

18. They regularly encourage you and tell you how much you mean to them and God.

19. You spend quality time together at each other's homes, and each other's family, and share each other's friends.

20. They are consistent and reliable.

21. They do what they say including" I'll call you right back" or "I'll call you tonight". 

22. They don't create drama for you, they are mature.

23. You feel loved by them.

24. They find ways to bless you.

25. The hug they give you makes you feel loved.

26. They respect you. 

27. Your enemies are their enemies.

28. Your God is their God.

29. You feel emotionally, spiritually, and physically safe with them.

30. They genuinely sit and listen to you without interrupting and show care and empathy.

31. They don't want to lose you and fight for you.

Is Wife Swapping Okay?

Wife swapping is not okay even if the partners agree to do it. It is a sin. Wife swapping is the perverted practice where married couples get together and “exchange wives” in order to have sexual intercourse with them. This is adultery. 

The Bible defines what marriage is and it also states where the sexual union is to be held; namely, within the marriage covenant. The Bible tells us that a husband and wife are to remain faithful to each other. Wife swapping is a sinful and adulterous practice forbidden in scripture.

Swinging, wife swapping and threesomes is a sin called adultery, and is never acceptable to God. It doesn’t matter if you, your spouse, and the other couple all consent — God doesn’t consent. The Seventh Commandment is short and to the point:

Exodus 20:14, “You shall not commit adultery.”

Jesus raises the bar set in the Old Testament:

Matthew 5:27-28, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

A person might claim, “It’s not adultery if my spouse knows about it and approves.” However, the definition of adultery makes no such distinction and never has throughout human history.

Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his or her lawful spouse is adultery.

God’s will is that sex should be reserved exclusively for a husband and a wife. So, while there aren’t many limits on what you and your wife can do together, you can’t bring someone else into your sexual relationship. Neither spouse can give the other spouse permission to commit adultery — adultery isn’t just a sin against your spouse, it’s a sin against God. 

Permission from your spouse doesn’t make adultery acceptable to God. It is never acceptable to have sex outside of your marriage. See also: Proverbs 5, “be intoxicated always in her love”, Hebrews 13:4, and Proverbs 7.

If your marriage is happy, swinging won’t strengthen it; if your marriage is unhappy, wife swapping won’t fix any of the underlying problems. We strongly exhort every married couple to keep their sex life exclusive to themselves. This is what God commands through the Bible, and worldly experience says the same thing.

Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage For Men

1. Rejecting Food When There's An Issue:

Mr husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling Your Wife Severally That You Are The Head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys /disrespects you she still knows that you are the head? You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however, don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing Threats: 

beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce, or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, plays the "matured man."

4. Reporting Your Wife To Friends And Family: 

When your wife offends you, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. By the way, are you a reporter answering my question?

5. Keeping Malice: 

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticize, abuse, and call their wife's names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not Helping With House Chores: 

I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full-time housewife. However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with a newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and soothe her, this also makes you a good example to the kids, especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal meals; a big shame.

My Point?

A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.

Sorry if I offend anyone with this post but that’s it. Thanks. 

By the way, I hope there is little sense in this post .!!

13 Sentences You Should Never Tell Your Husband

1.  "YOU SHOULD MAN UP"

If your intention is to challenge him to be better, these are not the words to use. These words make him feel undermined and belittled.

2. "BEAT ME IF YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH"

Don't provoke him. Don't test him. Don't put you and him in a situation where you both say or do ugly things.

3. "YOU ARE SUCH A MAMA'S BOY"

Even if you think he is accommodating his mother too much, saying this makes him feel you are attacking his mother. His mom will always be his mom. Find a way of honoring his mother as you pull him closer to you to build as a couple. Correct him without insulting his relationship with his mother. 

4. "F*CK YOU"

Curse words communicate disrespect. Hold your tongue. 

5. "GROW UP SOMETIMES"

This, similar to "Grow some balls" makes him feel you see him as a boy. You can inspire him to greatness without making him feel you are looking down on him.

6. "MY FRIENDS WERE RIGHT ABOUT YOU"

This communicates you are gossiping about him and you value more what others say about him than the man you personally know him to be.

7. "I REGRET MARRYING YOU"

In moments of anger, don't speak words that sow seeds of doubt in him. Communicate your disappointment in his specific actions without putting into question what you two have built all this time. 

8. "YOU DON'T SATISFY ME IN BED"

Don't mock his sexual performance in bed yet want the same man and the same penis to satisfy you in the future. Men make love with their heart and their ego. When you praise the little he does right to please you, he will seek to do more to pleasure you.

9. "WHY CAN'T YOU BE LIKE OTHER MEN?"

Don't compare him with other men. He is unique. Speak to his individual identity.

10. "DID YOU EVEN GO TO SCHOOL?"

Don't mock his intellect, especially if you have a more formal education than him. You get nothing positive out of bringing a man down. Remember there was a time you used to admire him, speak to that man in him.

11. "I AM WEARING THE PANTS IN THIS HOUSE"

Don't make him feel useless or his position undermined. He will withdraw and pull away. When a man feels unappreciated, he puts in little effort. 

12. "YOU ARE SUCH A LOSER"

Why become his worst critic? These are not words that should come out of a life partner.

13. "I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED ANOTHER MAN"

Why hit him below the belt. If you are done with him, leave him for good; instead of remaining in the marriage, praying for the marriage yet inside the marriage, you are attacking him.

Lady, your biggest ammunition is your tongue. Your biggest encouragement to your husband, are your words and tone.

How To Wake Up Your Woman

There are many ways to love her..

1. KISS HER ON THE FOREHEAD when the alarm rings and she struggles to wake up

2. RUB AND SENSUALLY TOUCH her thighs, hips, back, nipples; so that she wakes up aroused. She loves being turned on by her husband for morning glory

3. OCCASIONALLY PREPARE BREAKFAST IN BED. Let her wake up to being pampered. Surprise her once in a while

4. STARE AT HER WHEN HER EYES ARE ABOUT TO OPEN. She loves it when your loving eyes are the first thing she sees

5. PRAY FOR HER FIRST THING WHEN SHE WAKES UP. Then kiss her lips to say "Amen"

6. LET HER WAKE UP TO YOUR HOLD, YOUR EMBRACE as you have a calm and intimate conversation with her. Sometimes a woman wants a quiet morning

7. LET HER WAKE UP TO THE VIEW OF YOUR CARRYING YOUR CHILD, giving her a break; especially when she stayed up till late looking after your child

8. GO INSIDE UNDER THE COVERS AND LICK HER BETWEEN HER LEGS; especially when you two sleep naked. She loves it when her husband makes her wet in the morning, then make love to start the day with passion

9. CALL HER OR TEXT HER A SWEET LOVING MESSAGE, words of blessing; if you two wake up far from each other. Distance shouldn't be an excuse not to start her day with a smile

10. KISS HER SKIN, FINGERS AND PARTS OF HER BODY as you tell her how beautiful she looks, how proud you are she is yours, how amazing she is, how she is going to have a great day. Tell her she is still the one, even in this new day

The woman determines the mood of the house, the mood of the woman is dependent on how her husband treats her first thing in the morning. When a man makes his woman feel special, he is actually looking after his own interest and home. A loved up woman, governs the home with love, she loves good in return. She glows through out the day. Start the day right.

~John Nazzy.

Touching Story - Father Decided To Re-Marry

Touching Story! 😓😪

An 8-year-old boy lost his mum. He was so sad and depressed. A year after his Mum's demise, his father decided to re-marry.

One day, the boy's father called him and asked, "Is there any difference between your mother and and your step-mother?"

The boy answered, "Yes." His dad then asked him, "What's the difference?" The boy innocently replied, "My mother used to lie to me but my step mother doesn't."

His Father was surprised, he asked, "What do you mean? "The boy then replied, "When I go to my friends house, I usually play rough, my mum would tell me not to play rough or else she won't give me food. When my mum sees that I wasn't at home at the expected time, she would leave whatever she was doing and come to meet me wherever I was. She would then take me home and give me food. But my stepmother always keeps to her word. I have been hungry for the past two days. I MISS MY MUM.

LESSON: 

No one can take the place of a mother. May our Mothers live to eat the fruit of their labor.

I Will Tell My Daughter Before Sending Her Off

1) No man is perfect

2) Men are like children. So be like his mother.

3) Hear quickly; talk slowly.

4) Never compete with a man.

5) Never try to be equal with him.

6) Be fast to apologize when you know you are wrong.

7) Don't be too jealous of him. This is good for your peace of mind.

8) You may check on his phone if you want, but that isn't necessary.

9) Always be honest as a wife.

10) Never leave your house for a long distance without his permission.

11) Make sure you know the food he likes, and prepare that at least twice a week if money allows.

12) Don't let your husband get in the house with a parcel in his hand.

13) Try to make a budget together.

14) Be his adviser, not a criticizer.

15) Don't ever forget that a wife is a helper of the husband.

16) Learn good things from your mother.

17) When God blesses you with children, never give more attention to your children and forget your husband.

18) Learn to smile at your husband.

19) When your husband knocks off from work, greet him. If possible, hug him.

20) Don't let your husband leave the house without eating. This may mean "eat" and "eat".

21) When you husband becomes angry, stop talking.

22) Keep the bedroom clean always.

23) Never put clothes on the bed. Some men hate that.

24) Be a clean woman.

25) Look romantic.

26) Always remember to do what a wife should do. You are not his sister.

27) Treat his relatives as you would treat yours.

28) Oftentimes ask how his relatives are doing.

29) Go to church together.

30) Never compare your husband or your house to someone else's.

SECRET OF HAPPY HOME!

Moms: Appreciate Them When Their Little

We don’t appreciate the years of little kids while we’re in them.⁣⁣

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Because humans never do until it's too late and they're gone.⁣⁣

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While we're in it, we often wish parts of it away,⁣⁣

The hardly any time to ourselves,⁣⁣

The crawling across the floor to put away puzzles and crayons,⁣⁣

The peeling off stickers,⁣⁣

And scraping muffins and scrambled eggs off the kitchen floor.⁣⁣

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We wish away the tantrums,⁣⁣

The constant fighting,⁣⁣

The bad behavior,⁣⁣

The non-stop laundry,⁣⁣

And the exhaustion ALL THE TIME.⁣⁣

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We wish away every imperfect moment that makes our skin crawl.⁣⁣

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But one day, it will be over⁣⁣

And we’ll miss it—⁣

ALL OF IT.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss the giggles,⁣⁣

The smiles,⁣⁣

The “not wiped off” kisses,⁣⁣

And chubby arms and toothless grins.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss being needed,⁣⁣

The crooked teeth,⁣⁣

The time spent together,⁣⁣

And hearing “mommy look!” every two minutes.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss who we are RIGHT NOW as individuals and a family.⁣⁣

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Because soon new people will be living in our house with us. Their faces and voices will morph into someone else’s.⁣⁣

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And they’ll keep changing.⁣⁣

And we’ll be new people, too.⁣⁣

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So, let’s try to take in ALL OF IT—⁣⁣

the bad, hard, and the good—⁣⁣

and not take any of it for granted.⁣⁣

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Because I guarantee,⁣⁣

One day soon,⁣⁣

We’ll miss THIS.⁣

Art: Amanda Oleander 

How To Make Your Husband Love You

1. Call him by a pet name

2. Allow him to exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" whenever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness, and appreciate and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.

7. Honor his mother

8. Insist that he buys gifts for his parents and so be sure that he will do the same for your parents

9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delays his food.

10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because you may lose him to her.

11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children sometimes.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put a love note in his lunch box or briefcase.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love you.

18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him in the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be enticed by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.

20. Give him a hug for no reason.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.

22. Always remember to pray for him.

23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...

May God bless your Marriage. Singles may you experience true love today and forever!

May non-serious people that will waste your time be disconnected in your life In Jesus' Name.

Many Stay In Abusive Marriages

Domestic Abuse Is Not Okay In The Church!!! Staying In An Abusive Marriage Is Not Scriptural!!! Flee Persecution!!!

Unfortunately, there are many women and men like this woman of God who are physically abused in their marriages yet doing nothing about it because of what people will say. 

What happened to God's word. Christians are commanded to love one another, we are given the Holy Spirit is share the love of God abroad in our hearts and above all we are born again. For God's sake, Christians are supposed to be the people to have our marriages working. 

Obviously we are confronted with the fact that many only confess Jesus with their lips but have not done any business with Him with their heart. 

 

They are church goers not born again. How can you be a new creation who beats his wife or husband? A new creation who is insensitive to the pain of your partner? a new creation who is breaking marriage vows by cheating?

Christianity is fully representing Christ in every corner. Your family must be the first to benefit from your recreation. Enough with the hypocritical way of approaching Christianity when we can't even be at peace with our own spouse, family and Christian brothers and sisters yet claim to be serving the Prince of peace. 

IF YOUR CHRISTIANITY HAVE NOT AFFECTED YOUR CHARACTER, SIR/MADAM, I AM BEING TRUTHFUL TO YOU WITHOUT ANY RESERVATION; THAT CHRISTIANITY OF YOURS IS A FAKE ONE. 

You can't claim to serve the God of love yet you are unloving. Preach a forgiving God yet you are unforgiving. It is time we come very clear as a church and pay attention to some people among us who name themselves Christians seeking to marry us yet have no seed of godliness in them. Do you know what it means for God to dwell in a person?

IF YOU ARE GENUINELY BORN AGAIN, PEOPLE AROUND YOU WILL FEEL THE PEACE, THE LOVE AND THE WARMTH THAT IMMANATES FROM YOUR SPIRIT EACH DAY...Let's stop deceiving ourselves!!!

~Pastor Elvis  

How To Organize A Weekend As A Couple

Bonds of union, trust, and passion are enhanced when new destinations or experiences are discovered. In addition to resting and disconnecting from the noise, enjoying a weekend as a couple is an incentive to consolidate love.

If you want to celebrate a special date, an anniversary, or Valentine's Day, romantic outings are unforgettable experiences. A weekend for you is also ideal when you are looking for some relaxation in the middle of a busy year or during the month before the wedding day to counteract the stressful effects of the preparations. Ideas and tips to reconnect with stillness and serenity on a weekend as a couple.

1. Idyllic Setting

If it is the idea of ​​one of the members of the couple, the surprise factor will give them both an unrepeatable moment. In that case, you'll need to consider what you both like. Disconnecting from the noise and the everyday hustle and bustle is the key to finding a quiet place where you can enjoy the romantic and idyllic surroundings, intimacy, and travel plans.

2. Near Destination:

The best thing about weekend getaways is that the trip is short. So the shorter the distances, they can make the most of the hours without wasting time on transfers. The main characteristic of these romantic trips is to prioritize the time spent as a couple and the experiences they can share.

3. Romantic Accommodations:

When making reservations and arrangements for transfers and excursions, it is ideal that they prioritize accommodations designed with a romantic aesthetic to disconnect, and that also offer special packages for couples. Investigate the lodging and choose the one that fits the budget, but at the same time contemplate a special proposal, either in the views of the room to enjoy the sunrises, a rich breakfast, or other well-being options.  

 

4. Enjoy As A Couple:

In any outing as a couple, the important thing is how you prepare to enjoy yourself, without putting the mishaps that may occur above you. Therefore, the state of mind has to be predisposed to have a good time in pairs and relax away from routine and obligations. Stay tuned to discover the magic of the destination you choose and find all the charms that make it special and unforgettable.

5. Activities As A Couple:

Surely there will be a romantic dinner by candlelight, and the most frequent proposals are long walks, programs in nature, taking advantage of that contact that is so good for health. Giving away romantic experiences is an idea that is difficult to resist. They can go on a trip to the mountains, a walk or a picnic on a beach, a walk under the stars, or a trip to a neighboring town.

6. Romantic Evening At Home:

Each couple will find a multitude of places close to home to spend a weekend of connection with stillness and intimacy, according to their tastes and concerns. However, a weekend together does not have to always be planned away from home. The romantic evening can be set in your own home, with small details and disconnection from the outside world. They can hire a cook and prepare a gourmet dinner, and have a romantic and sensual room with candles, flowers, and chocolates. Take advantage of the intimacy that the love nest itself offers.

Do not forget to carry elements in your bag that help you create atmospheres, such as candles or essential oils. If the trip is a surprise, do not leave the details to chance, let him/her be surprised by sparkling wine, some chocolate hearts, or decorations with petals.

The Greatest Tragedy Of Diana

The greatest tragedy of Diana, Princess of Wales was not her disastrous loveless marriage, nor even her divorce and violent death. It is more than her emotionally scarred childhood and consequent unstable character.

It Is This:

All her life, like you and me, she sought genuine love, and unconditional acceptance, and yearned to share such love with hurting people.

In marrying the future king she assumed she would be joining the most solid family imaginable. Her future looked secure, happy, and assured in the "perfect relationship".

Instead, she soon found torment, insecurity, and bitterness. And try as hard as she might, she could not give what she did not have.

Real love, unconditional love, is only found in one person, The Lord Jesus Christ.

Love is not romance, love is not an emotion. Love is Jesus the Son of God laying down his life for us sinners. God is love, and Christ's death on our behalf is the perfect example of real love. There is no other.

Romance is fickle, and imaginary (of the mind). Mother's love is selfish, limited to her own children (until they cross her.)

Diana rejected Him, and His love, and had to be satisfied with its poor human imitation.

Now that she has died separated from God's love, she has discovered that marrying Prince Charles was not the greatest mistake of her life.

It was rejecting the Only One who really loved her as she needed, and wanted, to be loved.  

 

The One who loved her so much, He died in her place bearing all her guilt, sin, and shame on a cruel wooden Cross. The Man who poured out his sinless Blood to satisfy God's Law, in Diana's place.

Jesus, God's Only Son, did that for her. All she had to do to have the "perfect relationship" was accept Him into her heart as Lord and Saviour. She would then have joined the Perfect Man in the Perfect Family... God's family.

Diana had many opportunities. Christians spoke to her and prayed for her, but she never received Christ. She died in her sins.

Please don't make the same mistake.

Marriages Lack Unconditional Love

There is a huge difference between unconditional love and conditional love. 

Conditional love blames a person, expects things in return, and asks for more. 

Unconditional love accepts the person, expects nothing in return, and sacrifices.

When the human race embraces love unconditionally, then the lost will be found, the naked will be clothed, the hungry will be fed, the bombs will be destroyed and there will be peace and unity which will make us all speak one language, “LOVE”. Let love abide.  

 

Learning unconditional love is worth it, but it’s not easy. Giving your spouse the security of your unwavering love requires grace, patience, affirmation of the good things, encouragement, respect, and time. 

Even when you don’t feel like showing love, do it anyway. You need it; your spouse needs it; your marriage needs it.

Real True Love

The Australian ex-model Turia Pitt suffered burns to 65 percent of her body.

She lost her fingers and thumb on her right hand and spent five months in hospital after being trapped by a grassfire in a 100-kilometer ultra-marathon in the Kimberley. 

Her husband decided to quit his job to care for her recovery. Days ago, in an interview for CNN they asked him:

"Did you at any moment think about leaving her and hiring someone to take her of her and moving on with your life?"  

 

His reply touched the World:

"I married her soul, her character, and she's the only woman that will continue to fulfill my dreams."

Adam & Steve

 

God created Adam and Eve. Satan created LGBTQIA!  

The Bible clearly says that performing sexual acts with people of the same sex, and engaging in homosexual practice or behavior, is sin. 

In Leviticus 18:22, the Bible tells us that a man should not lie with a man as if he were a woman, it is an abomination. Romans talks about the shift from natural relationships (male and female) to unnatural relationships with people of the same gender. 

In 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 and 1 Timothy 1:8-11, one of the sins that appear in those “lists” is that of men who practice homosexuality. So the emphasis is on the consciously chosen activity of homosexual intimacy.

 

For although they knew God they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking and their senseless minds were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools.

Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen

For this reason, God gave them up to dishonorable passions. Their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural, and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in their own persons the due penalty for their error. ~Romans 1:21-27