How To Wake Up Your Woman

There are many ways to love her..

1. KISS HER ON THE FOREHEAD when the alarm rings and she struggles to wake up

2. RUB AND SENSUALLY TOUCH her thighs, hips, back, nipples; so that she wakes up aroused. She loves being turned on by her husband for morning glory

3. OCCASIONALLY PREPARE BREAKFAST IN BED. Let her wake up to being pampered. Surprise her once in a while

4. STARE AT HER WHEN HER EYES ARE ABOUT TO OPEN. She loves it when your loving eyes are the first thing she sees

5. PRAY FOR HER FIRST THING WHEN SHE WAKES UP. Then kiss her lips to say "Amen"

6. LET HER WAKE UP TO YOUR HOLD, YOUR EMBRACE as you have a calm and intimate conversation with her. Sometimes a woman wants a quiet morning

7. LET HER WAKE UP TO THE VIEW OF YOUR CARRYING YOUR CHILD, giving her a break; especially when she stayed up till late looking after your child

8. GO INSIDE UNDER THE COVERS AND LICK HER BETWEEN HER LEGS; especially when you two sleep naked. She loves it when her husband makes her wet in the morning, then make love to start the day with passion

9. CALL HER OR TEXT HER A SWEET LOVING MESSAGE, words of blessing; if you two wake up far from each other. Distance shouldn't be an excuse not to start her day with a smile

10. KISS HER SKIN, FINGERS AND PARTS OF HER BODY as you tell her how beautiful she looks, how proud you are she is yours, how amazing she is, how she is going to have a great day. Tell her she is still the one, even in this new day

The woman determines the mood of the house, the mood of the woman is dependent on how her husband treats her first thing in the morning. When a man makes his woman feel special, he is actually looking after his own interest and home. A loved up woman, governs the home with love, she loves good in return. She glows through out the day. Start the day right.

~John Nazzy.

When Another Woman Is Getting Your Husband's Attention

You need to get up as wife and break that flow. I didn't say fight, accuse him of affair, scatter everywhere or warn him, I said, break the flow...the growing bond between them.

Sometimes people wait till it is too late before thinking of forestalling an impending danger.

If your husband keeps praising a particular woman whether friend, colleague, mentor, mentee, Pastor's wife, counsellor, etc., you need to find out what she is doing to him, give him double and phase her out of his life. Call it competition, YES.

If he praises her dressing, he is attracted to her dressing, you must consciously step up the way you dress, if it is the time and attention she gives him, you have to spend more time with him and give him extra attention, if it is her cooking skill, you need to step up, if it is the admiration and respect she shows him, you need to do more.

People go where their needs are met. Men go where their needs are met.

If you don't meet his needs and another woman does so, he will bond without even knowing why! Not everyone carries their Two legs to go look for affair. Affair sometimes happen to love starved men and women!

Break the bond between them consciously, prayerfully, wisely and quietly. Warning him to desist from such women is the last thing to do if every other method didn't work.

Men will do well to tell their wives their needs and teach her to meet them before they reach their breaking point.

Once you notice a man is giving you excessive attention as a woman, you need to move back so he can concentrate on his marriage.

A counselee once told me I was giving him the attention his wife ought to because I often check up on him online and ask how he is fairing. The moment I heard that, I reduced the conversation and  requested both he and his wife should come for counselling.

I told a man experiencing some financial set back he could get his fortune back if he aimed high, believe and talk like a rich man. He changed his mindset and speech. He told me his wife made jest of him and doused his fire! I encouraged him more, the wife doused the fire more! I stopped encouraging and faced my business as he seemed to want to spend more time with me and even liked my hair! I never encouraged him again. If the wife couldn't do it, it's none of my business.

Don't tempt the devil to tempt you! Stay off anyone showing you the affection, attention and love you need to get from your spouse.