𝟓 𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐓𝐎 𝐁𝐄 𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐄𝐃, 𝐎𝐁𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐄𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐔𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐆𝐀𝐈𝐍.
Whether your relationship is feeling stale & average or like you are roommates more than actual lovers you can flip that dynamic around with these 5 ways.
1) Understand You as a man have the power to have the relationship you want. By simply first acknowledging that and then owning your role that you play in your marriage WITHOUT looking at what your partner is doing or isn’t doing you can start creating big changes in your relationship by leading with your own example and setting the tone for the dynamic in your marriage.
2) Get crystal clear on what relationship you want to have with your woman and put in the work and the commitment to create exactly what you want. The most effective and fastest way you can do this is getting yourself a coach either myself or another coach who you connect with, I did the same for my own relationship having a coach who supported me personally on my journey as a man and within my relationship.
3) Get curious, get attentive, and begin to listen in depth and understand her mind and needs, how she thinks and feels so you can be one step ahead. This shows her that you care about her needs and know them before she even asks you. Women love it when you pay attention. For example for my woman I like to, without saying anything, take over and do the things around the house she would normally do, meanwhile making her a coffee and letting her have her alone time this creates the same dynamic the other way around.
4) Be selfish. This one is for a specific character and man. This is the key in you having her fall madly in love with you. When I say be selfish I mean, know your own goals, and interests and have strong boundaries so that you can feel fulfilled within yourself first and show up AS THAT STRONG, SELF AWARE HUSBAND AND LEADER.
5) Talk about your goals, goals in common together, and your vision for you and each other and work towards the same vision and know her vision too, What is it that she is looking forward to in the future? Can you inspire each other to take more risks, and have something exciting that you both together are looking forward to? Don’t just settle in this life and have a mediocre boring life, strive for an incredible life!
Is this something you would like to see for your relationship?