Marriage Is Not For Stubborn Ladies

Marriage is not for loud, stubborn, unteachable Jezebels who still think being a wife means equal power and zero structure. 

Marriage is not a democracy—it’s a divine order. 

The man leads. The woman follows. 

That’s the law. 

If she can’t allow her husband to lead, 

If she’s constantly challenging your decisions, 

Raising her voice, 

And trying to be the head, She doesn’t need a man. 

She needs therapy and distance. 

Because marriage is not for the rebellious. 

It’s for people who understand: 

Teamwork (not competition) 

Respect (not rivalry) 

Order (not confusion)

The Best Marriage Advice Ever

1. Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

2. Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling and, when possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse.

3. Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationship,” so consistently invest time in your marriage.

4. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.

5. Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.

6. In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything, so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.

7. Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It’s usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak. Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than sex to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!

8. Remember that marriage isn’t 50-5; divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!

9. Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

10. Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else’s. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!

11. Don’t put your marriage on hold while you’re raising your kids, or else you’ll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

12. Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

13. Never lie to each other. Lies break trust, and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.

14. When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

15. When your husband or wife breaks your trust, give them your forgiveness instantly, which will promote healing and create the opportunity for trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

16. Be patient with each other. Your spouse is always more important than your schedule.

17. Model the kind of marriage that will make your sons want to grow up to be good husbands and your daughters want to grow up to be good wives.

18. Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places.

19. Always wear your wedding ring. It will remind you that you’re always connected to your spouse, and it will remind the rest of the world that you’re off limits!

20. Connect with a community of faith. A good church can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

21. Pray together. Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.

22. When you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, say nothing every time!

23. Never consider annulment as an option. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

Rules For Being A Good Husband And Keeping Your Wife Happy

 

What are the rules for being a good husband and keeping your wife happy?

If you want a successful marriage, here are the rules for being a good husband and keeping your wife happy:

1. Yоu ѕhоuld avoid taking уоur wife fоr granted. A good husband honours аnd respects him wife. A good husband won’t belittle hiѕ wife аnd treat hеr аѕ аn inferior being.

2. Yоur wife ѕhоuld bе уоur number оnе priority nоt уоur father, mother, brothers, sisters оr аnу blood relative. Yоu can’t hаvе a successful marriage if уоu don’t make уоur wife уоur priority.

3. Yоu ѕhоuld frequently tеll уоur wife hоw muсh уоu love hеr аnd show hеr thrоugh уоur actions too. Yоu make hеr feel loved аnd valued whеn уоu аlwауѕ tеll hеr уоu love her.

4. Dо nоt stop dating уоur wife аftеr marriage. Mаnу men ѕее marriage аѕ a goal accomplished аnd stop giving thеir wife thе attention thеу gave hеr whilе dating her. Yоur wife wаntѕ thе chase tо continue аftеr marriage. Kеер dоing аll thе sweet things уоu did whilе dating her.

5. Yоu ѕhоuld kеер tо уоur words. Failed promises саn destroy a marriage. Whеn уоu kеер tо уоur words аѕ a husband, уоu earn уоur wife’s trust.

6. Nо woman wаntѕ a husband with roving eyes. If уоu wаnt tо hаvе a successful marriage, уоur eyes ѕhоuld bе оn уоur wife alone. Mаnу failed marriages аrе a result оf unfaithful husbands. Yоur wife ѕhоuld bе thе mоѕt beautiful woman in thе world in уоur eyes.

7. Mаnу husbands fail tо ѕее things frоm thеir wife’s perspective аnd thiѕ iѕ wrong. If уоu wаnt уоur marriage tо bе a success, уоu ѕhоuld make аn effort tо ѕее things frоm уоur wife’s point оf view.

8. Yоu аrе expected аѕ a husband tо satisfy thе emotional nееdѕ оf уоur wife. Yоu аrе expected аѕ a husband tо kiss уоur wife еvеrу morning bеfоrе уоu leave fоr work аnd whеn уоu gеt back home.

9. Bе generous with уоur wife whеn it соmеѕ tо money. Whеthеr уоur wife works оr not, уоu аrе expected аѕ a mаn tо рrоvidе fоr her. Stop bеing a stingy husband. There’s nоthing wrong with spending ѕоmе оf уоur hard-earned money оn уоur wife. Shе deserves it.

10. If уоu wаnt to keep your wife happy, уоu ѕhоuld hеlр уоur wife with house chores. Hеlр hеr in thе kitchen, tidy thе bedroom, run errands fоr hеr аnd cook fоr her.

Sex And Moaning (For Married Only)

 

1. Moaning is a vocal expression of sexual pleasure.

2. Moaning encourages your spouse to keep on doing what he/she is doing to give you pleasure.

3. The sweeter the pleasure, the more passionate the moaning.

4. Pay attention to your spouse's moan. When you hear your spouse moan more, keep on doing that act. Moaning is like a tip, a guide to knowing how to please your spouse 

5. Don't lay lifeless, soundless, motionless in bed when your spouse is having sex with you. It communicates that you are not interested.

6. The sweet names you call your spouse during lovemaking, are "Sweetheart", "Hun", and "Babe"..  don't use them only during lovemaking, use them also when sex is not on the agenda. Show your spouse that you value him/her for more than an orgasm. 

7. Some people use colorful words during moaning such as "F*ck, that feels so good!". If you have such a colorful spouse, he/she is not insulting you, that is not the time to be a grammar police, your spouse is just feeling really good because of you. If you will use colorful words, make sure they don't offend your spouse. 

8. Don't copy moaning sounds in movies or try and imitate porn star moans; be you, don't act.

9. Most people close their eyes when they moan. The feeling is intense. 

10. As you moan be aware of your surroundings. If you live close to neighbors, watch your volume; enjoy but don't disturb the peace of others. 

11. As you moan, be conscious of the children if they are sleeping nearby. Let they think Mom and Dad are having a bedroom fight 

12. If you want those moments where you can unleash yourself the most and moan your loudest; occasionally book a room in a hotel that is soundproof and scream your lungs there.

13. Moaning adds to the memorable experience of lovemaking. It is the soundtrack to the act.

Who Is A Wife Material?

1. She's not just someone who can cook, wash your clothes, or clean the house. Besides anyone can do that; you can always get a maid for that.
2. She's that woman, even when the world is against you she's got your back.
3. She's that woman who no matter how things get rough/tough you can always count on her.
4. She's that woman even when you don't know who to turn to anymore, she's always telling you I'm here for you and will never let go.
5. She’s never your pain. She is that woman who can turn your house into a home.  Not everyone can do it.
6. She walks beside you, not in front of you or behind you.
7. She can leave in one place and still be in one place waiting for you. Not fooling around with another man when you’re not there.
8. She will always stand in the gap for her beloved husband.
9. Husbands, please appreciate her if she’s one because they’re rare.
10. She never cheats because of financial instability, and she'll always be a mirror of her husband's grace and happiness
11. She supports your strengths and assists your weaknesses.
    

Rules To Teach Your Son

1. Never shake a man’s hand while sitting down.

2. Don’t enter a pool by the stairs.

3. The man at the BBQ Grill is the closest thing to a king.

4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.

5. Request the late check-out.

6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.

7. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.

8. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.

9. Play with passion or don’t play at all…

10. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look them in the eye.

11. Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.

12. If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.

13. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.

14. You marry the girl, you marry her family.

15. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.

16. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.

17. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.

18. Never turn down a breath mint.

19. A sport coat is worth 1000 words.

20. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.

21. Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.

22. Eat lunch with the new kid.

23. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.

24. Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.

25. Manners maketh the man.

26. Give credit. Take the blame.

27. Stand up to Bullies. Protect those bullied.

28. Write down your dreams.

29. Take time to snuggle your pets, they love you so much and are always happy to see you.

30. Be confident and humble at the same time.

31. If ever in doubt, remember whose son you are and REFUSE to just be ordinary!

32. In all things lead by example not explanation.

33. Dress how you want to be addressed

34. BE BLESSED BY BEING A BLESSING

How To Get Your Wife Obsessed With You

𝟓 𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐓𝐎 𝐁𝐄 𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐄𝐃, 𝐎𝐁𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐄𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐔𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐆𝐀𝐈𝐍.

Whether your relationship is feeling stale & average or like you are roommates more than actual lovers you can flip that dynamic around with these 5 ways.

1) Understand You as a man have the power to have the relationship you want. By simply first acknowledging that and then owning your role that you play in your marriage WITHOUT looking at what your partner is doing or isn’t doing you can start creating big changes in your relationship by leading with your own example and setting the tone for the dynamic in your marriage.

2) Get crystal clear on what relationship you want to have with your woman and put in the work and the commitment to create exactly what you want. The most effective and fastest way you can do this is getting yourself a coach either myself or another coach who you connect with, I did the same for my own relationship having a coach who supported me personally on my journey as a man and within my relationship. 

3) Get curious, get attentive, and begin to listen in depth and understand her mind and needs, how she thinks and feels so you can be one step ahead. This shows her that you care about her needs and know them before she even asks you. Women love it when you pay attention. For example for my woman I like to, without saying anything, take over and do the things around the house she would normally do, meanwhile making her a coffee and letting her have her alone time this creates the same dynamic the other way around.

4) Be selfish. This one is for a specific character and man. This is the key in you having her fall madly in love with you. When I say be selfish I mean, know your own goals, and interests and have strong boundaries so that you can feel fulfilled within yourself first and show up AS THAT STRONG, SELF AWARE HUSBAND AND LEADER.

5) Talk about your goals, goals in common together, and your vision for you and each other and work towards the same vision and know her vision too, What is it that she is looking forward to in the future? Can you inspire each other to take more risks, and have something exciting that you both together are looking forward to? Don’t just settle in this life and have a mediocre boring life, strive for an incredible life!

Is this something you would like to see for your relationship?

Pride & Arrogance Destroy Your Marriage and Family

Pride and arrogance destroy your marriage and family. Arrogance destroys glory, it is more deadly than cancer. 

One might be arrogant without even knowing, that is why there's need to read through this points carefully and observe areas that needs to be worked upon for positive change

1.   When you cannot submit yourself to higher authority.

2.  When you find it difficult to accept corrections.

3.  When you are too big to say “sorry”.

4.  When you think that your success or achievements are based on your efforts.

5.  When you don’t have respect for people.

6.  When you are always feeling superior to others.

 7.   When you always want to control or dominate others.

 8.   When you think that you are better than other people.

  9.  When you cannot work under those with lesser qualifications.

 10.   When you are always angry at those who correct you.

11.   When you avoid those who criticize you for NOT understanding their Rationality.

 12.   When you feel too big to learn.

 13.   When you feel ashamed to ask questions about what you don’t know.

 14.   When you are always bragging about your achievements/connections.

 15.   When you don’t consider it necessary to say “thank you” to those who help you.

 16.   When you think that nobody knows more than you.

 17.   When you think that you cannot make mistakes.

 18.  When you think that you know everything in life.

 19.   When you look at those who helped you to get to the top as nothing.

 20.   When you refused to appreciate those who have been a blessing to your life even when you have over enough to do so. 

 One can only attend greatness only in simplicity. Humility is the best!

Healthy Traits In A Family Or Relationship

1. Genuine relationships are HONEST with each other. No lying and withholding information. 

2. You completely TRUST each other. Without trust, there is no relationship.

3. They are your biggest cheerleaders.

4. You can trust each other with everything including your house and your money.

5. They tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.

6. They hold you accountable.

7. They’re the first person you call when something amazing happens.

8. They’ll always pick up the phone when you call.

9. They’re the first to apologize when they mess up.

10. They have your back. They are loyal and defend you.

11. You have inside jokes galore.

12. They’re the best person to have a deep conversation with.

13. They care about how they make you feel. 

14. They check in on you, even when they have big things going on.

15. They pray with and for you.

16. They will tell you the truth even if it means losing you when you are doing something sinful. 

17. They care more about your soul and your well-being than their needs.

18. They regularly encourage you and tell you how much you mean to them and God.

19. You spend quality time together at each other's homes, and each other's family, and share each other's friends.

20. They are consistent and reliable.

21. They do what they say including" I'll call you right back" or "I'll call you tonight". 

22. They don't create drama for you, they are mature.

23. You feel loved by them.

24. They find ways to bless you.

25. The hug they give you makes you feel loved.

26. They respect you. 

27. Your enemies are their enemies.

28. Your God is their God.

29. You feel emotionally, spiritually, and physically safe with them.

30. They genuinely sit and listen to you without interrupting and show care and empathy.

31. They don't want to lose you and fight for you.

Let Me Give You Facts About Quiet People

 

1. Quiet people talk a lot inside of their heart, sometimes they talk alone.

2. Once they get comfortable with you they get crazy and wild.

3. They speak in thoughts and heart.

4. They are shy, they can't maintain eye contact a lot.

5. They have too much anger don't get them pissed off. And they know  how to micromanage their anger issues. 

6. They are strong and very intelligent.

7. They are very crazy on social media (sometimes)

8. They have very cool personalities and are fun to be with.

9. Their minds are always calculating, they are overthinking too much. Bad things and good things. That's how I have noticed. 

10. They are loyal and love the most in relationships. When quite  people they are in a relationship they love you wholeheartedly. They love deep. But if they don't love you, they leave you completely due to their love is very strong. 

11. They never show their pain, and they are emotional people. 

12. Some of them are depressed and alone but they pretend, deep down they feel like to be alone,  they are introvert people.

13. They've got the cutest smile and weirdest laughter.

14. Most of them they like facts, and they are honest.

15. Quiet people are likely to be secretive, also   they hide many things, but if you want to make them feel uncomfortable nor melancholy they will tell the truth as it is without any fear.

16. Quiet people are introverts they are actually happy when they are alone. As long as they are busy with what they love. It's okay. 

17. Quiet people, and introvert people create their own scenes in their mind and believe them. 

18. Quiet people, and introverted people they love to read. Reading books, especially novels both fiction and nonfiction books. Sometimes inspirational books (self help books).

Is Wife Swapping Okay?

Wife swapping is not okay even if the partners agree to do it. It is a sin. Wife swapping is the perverted practice where married couples get together and “exchange wives” in order to have sexual intercourse with them. This is adultery. 

The Bible defines what marriage is and it also states where the sexual union is to be held; namely, within the marriage covenant. The Bible tells us that a husband and wife are to remain faithful to each other. Wife swapping is a sinful and adulterous practice forbidden in scripture.

Swinging, wife swapping and threesomes is a sin called adultery, and is never acceptable to God. It doesn’t matter if you, your spouse, and the other couple all consent — God doesn’t consent. The Seventh Commandment is short and to the point:

Exodus 20:14, “You shall not commit adultery.”

Jesus raises the bar set in the Old Testament:

Matthew 5:27-28, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

A person might claim, “It’s not adultery if my spouse knows about it and approves.” However, the definition of adultery makes no such distinction and never has throughout human history.

Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his or her lawful spouse is adultery.

God’s will is that sex should be reserved exclusively for a husband and a wife. So, while there aren’t many limits on what you and your wife can do together, you can’t bring someone else into your sexual relationship. Neither spouse can give the other spouse permission to commit adultery — adultery isn’t just a sin against your spouse, it’s a sin against God. 

Permission from your spouse doesn’t make adultery acceptable to God. It is never acceptable to have sex outside of your marriage. See also: Proverbs 5, “be intoxicated always in her love”, Hebrews 13:4, and Proverbs 7.

If your marriage is happy, swinging won’t strengthen it; if your marriage is unhappy, wife swapping won’t fix any of the underlying problems. We strongly exhort every married couple to keep their sex life exclusive to themselves. This is what God commands through the Bible, and worldly experience says the same thing.

8 Things God Expects of Husbands

1. He Pursues God. 

- Men can’t lead right if they don’t follow Jesus right. 

2. He is a Provider. 

- Boys are cared by their mothers. Men provide for themselves. Mature men provide for their families. 

3.  He is Proactive. 

- Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Genesis 2:24

4. He is a Pastor of his family. 

- He leads his family and wife closer to Jesus.

Genesis 3:9

5.  He walks in Purity. 

- Remember that the grass is not greener on the other side. Fight to keep the fire within your marriage.

6. He is to be Perceptive.  

- If you know what bothers her, don’t do it.

If you know what she likes, do more of it. 

7. He is a Protector

- Not bully but builder. Leader, not lord. 

8. He is Passionate

- Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her. Ephesians 5:25

Advice For Ladies In Relationship

1. Don't waste your valuable time trying to convince or beg someone to love you. Someone out there it's deeply in love with you but you are chasing broken dreams why?

2. Never feel sad if someone else prefers another lady over you. It doesn't mean something is wrong with you. It simply means you were never meant together.

3. Please do not let a man know you are madly in love with him, don't let him know that you cannot do without him. Most guys will take you for granted, cheat on you or do anything he feels because after all, you love him so much.

4. Never cry, stress or die over a boyfriend, he's not your husband for God's sake. Boyfriend is not a legally accepted man, so why cry or take poison because he broke your heart? He never loved you then.

5. Don't feel as if the world is coming to an end when a man decided to walk away from you. Don't beg him to stay, you are too precious to beg for love sister. He will treat you like trash.

6. Don't try to force yourself to love a man, its like teaching a pig how to appreciate beauty and cleanliness.

7. As a lady, give yourself some respect, you must let your man know that you can survive without his money. Don't be requesting airtime, money for hair or clothes from him. Find a source of income and he will respect you.

Please always make use of what you learn, because that is the best way to improve your relationship/marriage. May God grant us the grace and wisdom to make it done. Amen!

Why Many Women Are Not Happy In Their Marriages

 

Why is your woman not happy with you? Why is she easily angry, irritable, depressed, frustrated, and very bitter toward you? Why did she lose respect for you in marriage? Why is she so emotionally drained, hates sex, and lost her charm?

1. YOU DON'T APPRECIATE HER:

Some men are perfect complainers and critics. They believe praising a woman will make her head swell and misbehave, even when she s slaving to death, they will rather attack, abuse, complain, and criticize than appreciate her. If you are that type of man, you can never have a happy woman under your roof. A simple "Thank you"," You are doing a great job", and "It's great having you in my life" will do great magic and turn your marriage around. Learn to appreciate your wife when she goes out of her way to please you. She will be happy and that gloom in your marriage will automatically disappear.

2. YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HER:

We are communication beings. I mean women love to talk, be listened to, and be well-understood. When you are too busy to communicate with her, look into her eyeball and let her know she is the most important person to you after God, you will have a frustrated, depressed wife. We understand you can be so busy and needs time to unwind and think, yes! We know but don't make a habit of ignoring your wife. She needs to talk to her daily.

3. YOU CHEAT ON HER:

Double dating is not allowed in courtship, if you cheat on her, she will end it. Chasing side chicks, and having emotional/sexual chats with other women may make your wife lose her mind. No wife will ever be happy with an adulterer. Stop it now and work on your marriage or you may end up divorced.

4. YOU DON'T ADMIRE HER: Unhappy Couple

Some men will look at their very beautiful wife, and acknowledge her beauty and attractiveness but open their mouths and say it is big problem. Some men need to be taught how to admire their women. Learn to open your mouth and tell your wife she's beautiful daily. No man out there should do that for you, it's your job. Admire her when she makes effort to look good for you. Admire her hair, body, and natural endowments. Admire her uniqueness. Open your mouth and tell her. Women need to hear this as often as possible. Any time hubby tells me I'm so beautiful, well-endowed, and irresistible, I can't help blushing. My day is made!

5. YOU RUSH IN AND OUT OF SEX:

Little or no foreplay will leave her dry and uninterested. Rushing in and rushing out of sex is a killer of sexual intimacy in marriage. Learn to be romantic. Be patient with her, and take things slowly till she is ready for intercourse. Do not roll over and sleep when it is over. Pull her in your arms. Let her sleep in your arms. There is nothing as blissful as sleeping in my husband's arms, let your wife sleep in your arms.

6. YOU DON'T ASSIST WITH CHORES

You sit in front of the TV with remote in hand and a toothpick in between your teeth while your wife is slaving in the kitchen, changing diapers, helping your kids with assignments, answering phone calls from clients, sweeping the apartment, and preparing for the next day's work. That's very bad. Your wife works as much as you do if not more. Learn to assist your woman at home. Don't turn her to your maid, don't watch her die of stress, and don't make her look older than you.

7. YOU COMPARE HER WITH OTHER WOMEN.

That's a shame. If you love her the way those women's husbands love them, she will be more virtuous than them all. Stop comparing your wife with women you don't know their weaknesses. If their husbands tell you the other side they have been enduring you will thank God for yours. The grass always looks greener on the other side. Stop being covetous. Work on your marriage and have a better wife.

8. YOU CORRECT HER IN PUBLIC:

Nothing embarrasses a woman more like her husband correcting or shouting at her in public. It is demeaning and very babyish. Every form of correction should take place in the house before stepping out and if at all you must correct as a matter of urgency, call her aside and speak to her softly, maturely, and discreetly. You will earn her honor for protecting her image, and she will respect you more and be happy with you.

9. YOU LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER AGAINST HER

This is wrong. You are not joined to your mother but your wife. You are not one with your mum but with your wife. Some men don't understand the language of leaving and cleaving. You leave every form of emotional intimacy with your parents and bond with your wife. You should talk first to your wife not your mum when making decisions. Both of you should speak with one voice to your mum. Some men even leave the home running their marriage to the mother and treat their wives like slaves in their marriage. No woman will ever be happy with you in that kind of arrangement -never!

10. YOU DON'T TAKE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES

How can a woman ever be happy with a husband who spends all his money on himself and his extended family members and little or nothing on his wife and children? These men appear nice, very generous, and philanthropic outside but inside, the woman is suffering, hungry and indebted. The rent is in arrears, children are sent home for school fees, and debtors are harassed to bless him, but the tears of the wife and children are cursing him. Your wife's curse will work faster than all the supposed blessings you expect from your eye service. Charity begins at home. Your wife and children are more important than others.

Take care of them first before taking care of outsiders. When your family is happy, well-fed, and has clothing, they will be happy and bless you. People will bless you for helping you. God will also bless you abundantly.

Learn to put first things first. When your wife is happy with you, your life will run smoothly, doors of favor will open to you and you will increase in health, wealth, and prosperity.

Do not make your wife unhappy, it will affect your marriage.

May the good Lord help you be the best husband in the world to your wife. You will not fail in your marriage.

Wisdom For Parenting

1- Avoid Giving your child everything he asks for. He will grow up believing that he has the right to get everything he wants.

2-Avoid laughing when your child speaks insulting words. He will grow up thinking that disrespect is entertainment.

3-Avoid remaining insensitive to bad behavior that he can display without scolding him for his bad behavior. He will grow up thinking that there are no rules in society.

4- Avoid picking up anything that your child messes up. He will grow up believing that others must take responsibility for his responsibilities.

5- Avoid letting him watch any program on TV. He will grow up thinking that there is no difference between being a child and being an adult.

6- Avoid giving your child all the money he asks for. He will grow up thinking that getting money is easy and will not hesitate to steal for it.

7- Always avoid putting yourself on his side when he is wrong against the neighbors, his teachers, or the police. He will grow up thinking that everything he does is correct, it is the others who are wrong.

8- Avoid leaving him alone at home when you go to the place of worship, otherwise he will grow up thinking that God does not exist.

May our labor over our children not be in vain!

LADIES: Bitter Truth You Must Swallow

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on the bed, and he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who wins your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men don't settle down with fake women who love money.

3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keeps them.

4. Material things definitely have their merits but they cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love. Sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.

7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him wait for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, morals, and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you, leg chains, earrings on the nose, dressing half naked, braless, over make up that will make you look like one Indiana gods, you plat your hair with multi colors, wearing 8 earrings on one ear.

10. Sex wouldn't keep that man you so love watching it.

NOTE: build your heart on the things God wants you to do. Watch the company you keep as friends, check the kind of posts you do, mind your language on people of the opposite sex, and ask God for the right person when the time comes. Leave a simple and mature life. Cut down on your tastes, and build and plan your future.  

Above all make God the standard of your life, he won't fail you and you will enjoy your home in the nearest future. 

Congratulations to the awaiting Brides and grooms of 2023. The Lord keeps you and blesses you all.

Rules To Teach Your Daughter

1. Make your bed every day, even if it’s right before you get in it.

2. Don’t wear holey underwear, in case you’re in an accident and they cut your clothes off.

3. Travel light through life. Keep only what you need.

4. It’s okay to cry when you’re hurt. It’s also okay to smash (some) things; but, wash your face, clean your mess, and get up off the floor when you’re done. You don’t belong down there.

5. If you’re going to curse, be clever. If you’re going to curse in public, know your audience.

6. Seek out the people and places that resonate with your soul.

7. Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.

8. 5-second rule. It’s just dirt. There are worse things in a fast food cheeseburger.

9. Happiness is not a permanent state. Wholeness is. Don’t confuse these.

10. If you’re staying more than one night, unpack your bag.

11. Never walk through an alley alone.

12. Be less sugar, more spice, and only as nice as you’re able to without compromising yourself.

13. Can’t is a cop-out.

14. Hold your heroes to a high standard. Be your own hero.

15. If you can’t smile with your eyes, don’t smile. Insincerity is nothing to aspire to.

16. Never lie to yourself.

17. Your body, your rules.

18. If you have an opinion, you better know why.

19. Practice your passions.

20. Ask for what you want. The worst thing they can say is no.

21. Wish on stars and dandelions, then get to work to make them happen.

22. Stay as sweet as you are.

23. Fall in love often. Particularly with ideas, art, music, literature, food and far-off places.

24. Fall hard and forever in love with nothing but yourself.

25. Say Please, Thank You, and Pardon Me, whenever the situation warrants it.

26. Reserve “I’m sorry” for when you truly are.

27. Naps are for grown-ups, too.

28. Question everything, except your own intuition.

29. You have enough. You are enough.

30. You are amazing! Don’t let anyone ever make you feel you are not. If someone does walk away. You deserve better.

31. No matter where you are, you can always come home.

32. Be happy and remember your roots, family is EVERYTHING.

33. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

34. No one will ever love you more than I do.

35. Be kind; treat others how you would like them to treat you.

36. If in doubt, remember whose daughter you are and straighten your crown.

Sex And Orgasm In Marriage

If we are honest, conversations about sex haven't been encouraged in the Christian community, especially before marriage. Many ignorant preachers view sexual discussion as a gross sin but the Bible is not ignorant about this. 

Sending people into relationships without educating them on how to have great sex is like telling someone to bake a cake from scratch without giving them any instructions. That's what's happening in the Christian community!

There are many men who will have sex with their wives and the moment they're to end is the time the woman is sexually stimulated. Always make sure you romance your wife to the stage of orgasm before sex.

Many couples wonder why their sex life is good but not great and the key is more orgasms! Without one sex it is like a decent piece of cake that was nice for the moment, but you wouldn't go out of your way to have it again.

Many will be asking me if should we talk about orgasm. Obviously, my answer is YES. I mean, honestly, I don’t think God created the clitoris as an afterthought like He had just run out of things to do and it seemed like a nice feature to toss in at the last minute. 

As Christians, we celebrate the fact that He is the Creator and that everything that was formed in His hands is good. The orgasm for husbands and wives was certainly a shining moment.

Orgasm with your spouse is like no other, well….anything. It is an amazing sleep aid, the best relaxation technique ever, makes the world seem brighter, problems are diminished, it also makes you feel sexy and confident. But the strange thing making love with your spouse & orgasm is also, like you said, an amazing form of worship.

Am a believer rooted in the word of God but I think one of the major causes of marital problems as a trained marriage counselor is mostly centered on sex whenever believers come to us?

Every part of our body has a function and the clitoris was created to arouse women to the climax of sex. Please learn to always romance your wife until she is already at the stage of sex.

Most Common Arguments Between Couples

1. Most Common Discussions After The Initial Crush

The initial crush has already passed, and after about a year and a half, discussions begin to appear. It seems that there are a lot of discussions and, although it is true that these discussions exist, what makes them seem so many is the contrast with the phase of falling in love, so placid. It is normal for different types of couple discussions to appear, such as the following:

2. Discussions Due To Jealousy In The Couple

One of the most common is arguments due to jealousy (by friends, by ex-partners...) and the best way to prevent this from happening is to talk about it openly in the cold. The discussion should be allowed to pass and, with goodwill on both sides, explain what fear each one feels, analyze between them whether it is founded or not, try to find solutions, etc. In matters of jealousy, the person who suffers from them is the one who must solve their self-esteem problem, but it is interesting that the other party helps them and shows goodwill.

3. Discussions On Social Networks

Also related to the above, there are discussions about the use of social networks: comments to other people, photographs that are displayed, etc. Here it is important to make it clear that everyone has their own space in which they are free to act as they wish. But we must not forget that, depending on the "agreement" between the two, there are actions that can upset the couple. It's about calibrating and choosing. That is, a person is free to compliment another on a social network; Depending on whether the couple has a tacit agreement not to do this or not, the person must decide if they do it knowing that it may upset their partner, stop doing it, try to convince them that there is nothing wrong with it, etc. The fundamental thing, as in everything, is to speak it openly and coldly.

4. Discussions About How We Dress

Sometimes discussions also arise because of the way of dressing: sometimes some clothing is considered excessively provocative, other times another way of dressing is considered careless... How to avoid this? Basically, we must communicate what our own tastes are and listen to what the other person wants to contribute to us. If what it tells us makes sense to us and we want to incorporate it, we can modify our clothing somewhat. If it doesn't make sense, the other person will have to compromise and not try to change us. Throughout this entire stage, many aspects are put to the test and as a result, the courtship continues or is interrupted.

5. Most Common Discussions In The Stages Of Coexistence And Self-affirmation

Later in the relationship, it is possible to ask questions such as " why do I argue so much with my partner " and think that couple arguments are frequent. In this advanced stage of a relationship, discussions about the most important aspects of coexistence and day-to-day life with our partner appear:

6. Discussions About In-laws

Discussions about relations with the in-laws are one of the most common. In these cases, it is important to establish to what extent each one is going to be involved with their in-laws and establish limits. It is necessary not to meddle too much in the affairs of the in-laws if this does not affect us directly and can harm our partner, and we must not let them meddle in our affairs either. It is a delicate matter, but with kindness and firmness, we can not be annoyed or offended or be annoyed or offended. And, if this does not happen, we will not argue with our partner.

7. Housework

Another usual discussion is the well-known one of the distribution of domestic tasks. This is solvable with a talk with written conclusions. Tasks are divided and assigned according to each house because each work situation and couple is different. Once established, it must be fulfilled and the discussion is over! Showing goodwill by doing what the other person hates the most, if it is not also our case, is a good step.

8. The Time We Spend With Friends

A discussion that, depending on the couple, could be in almost any phase, is that of going out with friends. Some people do not take this well at all and it becomes a problem. It is important to have your own space and be able to do what you want as long as you do not disrespect your partner, so this should simply be made clear. Whether it's going out, doing yoga, or playing soccer, whether it's done with friends or alone, you have the right to your own space and it's healthy. That the couple also does it is just as healthy for both one and the other.

If you wonder how to avoid a discussion of this type, the answer is easy: the solution to avoid it is to speak coldly and ask what problems our partner has to bother to maintain their own space. In general, he usually responds to self-esteem problems that, coincidentally, he improves by doing various activities alone and in a group.

9. Arguments Over Money

A discussion that usually appears in this phase is about money. It can be for many reasons: because one earns more than the other (it generally bothers the man that the woman earns more), because one spends common money without consulting, because of how common money is managed, etc. As the solution to almost everything, the most important thing is to make everyone's position clear from the beginning, at a time when there is no anger, and defend our idea, negotiating what is reasonable to reach an agreement.

Tips

These are the most common arguments between couples, but if you have a partner, you will know that living together is an inexhaustible source of arguments. Remember, always be honest and talk about everything coldly.

How To Reconcile With Your Partner After An Infidelity

If you want to reconcile with your partner after infidelity, without a doubt this is a problem that can be more complicated to solve than the previous ones, since a sincere relationship is something basic and with this gesture, trust is broken.

Even if you try to follow some of the advice mentioned above, if you have not first made sure that your partner has truly forgiven you for infidelity, it is most likely that nothing will work for you, you will always feel insecurity, distrust, jealousy, etc. 

For this reason, the first thing to do in these cases is, after confessing to infidelity and sincerely asking for forgiveness, give your partner the necessary space to process what happened and decide what to do on their part. If he decides that he forgives you for the infidelity and that he wants to move on, then you can start following the tips explained at the beginning.

In any case, remember that even if you have asked for forgiveness, infidelity is usually a wound that costs more to close and that is why you have to be patient, as well as respect each other's space and wishes until you can finally give up. sincere reconciliation. 

Thus, if you both want to save the relationship and put everything on your side, you can.