Have you been unfaithful to your partner? It is time to be consistent with your actions and explain to your partner what has happened. It is time to take control of the situation and give your relationship a dose of reality and truth. Although we know that it is a difficult decision to make and a hard pill to swallow, we believe that relationships always work when they are based on trust and sincerity.
We do not know if your partner will be able to forgive you, nor can we assure you that everything will go well, but what you will achieve with your confession will be to have a clear conscience and not have your partner deceived. Take note.
Steps To Follow:
1. Committing infidelity is not fun. The causes of this slip can occur for different reasons, but whatever they are, your partner should know. You must be sincere so that your relationship, if it continues, is always based on trust, on the other hand, infidelity is not a closed paradigm since it depends on the context, the state of the relationship, and even the confusing feelings that can appear at a certain time.
2. Facing up to telling a truth is not an easy task, but it is more satisfying for oneself. You cannot allow yourself to live in a lie, much less have your partner deceived, so the first thing you must be clear about before confessing to infidelity is that it is a serious mistake and that you feel sorry for it. Being clear about it yourself will help you make your partner understand that it is a slip that has meant nothing to you.
3. Before you sit in front of your partner, analyze the situation of your relationship. This step is important, since the infidelity may have been committed as a result of a crisis. Perhaps this slip is the result of a difficult context between the two, of a delicate and complicated moment in the relationship. It is important that you can argue your infidelity if you want to save your relationship.
4. On the other hand, it is necessary to know what kind of relationship you have. If it is based on trust, if you tell each other everything, if it is an open relationship, or, on the contrary, if you are conservative. Depending based on your relationship, your partner will forgive said slip or not; It is also worth asking yourself if an infidelity how much you are going to damage or make your partner suffer with such a confession, taking into account, on the other hand, the seriousness of the infidelity.
5. Once you have made a small balance, assessing the pros and cons of telling the truth or hiding your deception, you must make a decision: tell it or not. It is evident that by telling it, there is a risk that your partner will make the decision to break with everything and not forgive you, at least when you are together. But will you be able to move forward with a clear conscience of not having shared?
6. If you decide to act and tell your partner everything, think carefully about what you will say, how you will say it, and consider the consequences of your confession. Shuffle all the possibilities and draw up a strategy based on argumentation. You know your partner well so touch those necessary keys so that he understands and accepts your slip. Of course, never hold her responsible for it, assume your mistake, because even if it is the result of different circumstances, it is only yours.
7. Report and apologize. This is the best strategy you can follow. Be aware that your partner is going to question you and that the blow will mean a loss of trust. We do not recommend basing your argument on cheap promises, but we do recommend that you give your partner incentives to believe in you and to understand that it will not happen again in the future.
8. Once the infidelity has been confessed, you must be prepared for a gray time. Your partner will have lost trust in you and will have the right and freedom to make a decision. Meanwhile, you will have to arm yourself with patience, because you will probably have to endure reproaches for a while. We know that they will hit you like a jug of cold water, but if you are aware of the mistake you have committed, you must accept these blows with humility and conscience.
9. Do you love your partner? Fight for her! Yes, you've made a mistake, but it won't happen again. If it's really worth it for you to move on with your relationship, you should work to heal your partner's wounds. The long-distance race will begin with the reconquest and you must put effort into it so that your partner regains confidence in you. Of course, you must leave a space for him to assimilate, accept and make a decision about your future. Lucky!